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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2026
3 points

Covert now, used to be open by lack of choice in the matter. Now covert because that'd the way I've learnt to cope with it, times of stress and stuttering openly comes right back. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
7 points

I’ve been covert most of my life. Some people have said they haven’t even noticed I stutter! I’m normally an introvert but after a few drinks, I’m more of an extrovert in social settings. I definit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentEnergy & Biological RhythmsAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
3 points

I’m covert by preference, open by lack of choice. When I’m at my best I’m very good at coping, but when I get tired, stressed, or sad I just roll on with it. I still cope (diaphragmatic breathing etc....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterMar 4, 2026
9 points

Covert or open stutter?

Covert or open stutter? I didn't know I was a covert stutter'er until I went into speech therapy. I didn't even know hiding your stutter had a term. Anyway, thankfully through speech therapy I'm learn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 4, 2026
36 points

idk who needs to hear this but you dont have to be “inspirational” all the time

idk who needs to hear this but you dont have to be “inspirational” all the time so yea this is kinda a rant / kinda a hug post i keep seeing all these crazy high effort “i conquered my stutter and no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
7 points

This is so accurate, I need to show this to the people who try to tell me that I don't stutter. Just because I have figured out how to talk AROUND stuttering doesn't mean I DON'T stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
3 points

I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling :( I have a stutter too and I 100% relate to everything you’re saying. I tried fluency shaping speech therapy for over 10 years (age 13-25ish). I gave up because it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterMar 3, 2026
16 points

Is it normal to exploit other people’s weaknesses to put them down and feel better about yourself?

Is it normal to exploit other people’s weaknesses to put them down and feel better about yourself? I’m going through something difficult and I need to share. I’m currently doing an internship at a co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
1 points

I got therapy but tbh it didn't do much for me. I didn't stutter much in front of my therapist from what I remember, but stuttered everywhere else...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Therapy ExperiencesHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 1, 2026
9 points

I don’t know how I should go about finding a job

I don’t know how I should go about finding a job I (M21) don’t mean that I don’t know where I should look but the past couple of jobs I’ve had I have had horrible coworkers who were not very fond of m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 1, 2026
4 points

GAGUEIRA & EMPREGO

GAGUEIRA & EMPREGO Oi gente, eu me chamo Cosme e tenho 17 anos… estou trabalhando como atendente em uma pizzaria da minha cidade, a menina que trabalhava vai sair daí eu fui escalado no lugar… os ped...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2026
5 points

I can’t say I’ve mastered this but what’s been the most successful for me is figuring out to not give a shit. People care far less than it feels like they do. That said, it’s not easy to get there ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2026
21 points

How to not let stutter get in way of career?

How to not let stutter get in way of career? I have what can be called a severe stutter, as there are occasions when I pretty much block on every word. On average, I can block or stutter every couple ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
9 points

All I can do is Lol at this person's last line, not always that simple

All I can do is Lol at this person's last line, not always that simple Like many, the phone is a dreaded nightmare. If it's a corporation, I'll ask for a non-recorded line if they have it, and that he...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
2 points

This was me for so many years and I never knew why until a year or two ago. When I would be around others I would be subconscious about my speech but while alone it ever happened and why is that? Beca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
3 points

Note that when I stutter alone, is nowhere near as bad when I stutter in front of other people. Just a few repetitions which I overcome fast. So I still stutter way more when I'm In front of others. A...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
5 points

I think personally from experience that when we’re by ourselves we don’t have that pressure of knowing that someone is watching us and listening to us so there do we feel somewhat more comfortable....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
11 points

same here I talk sooo clear by myself but with other people or phone calls I stutter...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentExperiential Association
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2026
12 points

A Question About Tolerance

A Question About Tolerance Behind the anonymous bulwark of the internet, I feel I might want to be honest. I (38M) have stuttered since I was 5. I started speaking normally, and within a couple years...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 25, 2026
15 points

A video of me presenting for a job

A video of me presenting for a job I currently did a video of me showcasing some projects and some of the work for a job role and i created a youtube video presenting, did some editing and thought fk ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career