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commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
2 points

Man you're lucky. I stutter and block like crazy in front of my parents. I suck at communicating with people who are close to me like my parents, sisters etc. Maybe it's because I don't try to hide my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
3 points

I think your confusing laziness with not wanted to deal with the gruel and anxiety of constant hiding. But yeah I definitely think it's a cycle. Check this out: http://www.masteringstuttering.com/rec...

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Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
2 points

It seems like you think you're stuttering because your mind is telling you you're going to. But more likely (as is the case with me, personally) your mind is telling you're going to stutter on a word ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

Definitely not a covert stutterer. I was for a lot of my childhood/teens, but as I got older I realized how exhausting that was ^^which ^^is ^^just ^^a ^^nice ^^way ^^of ^^saying ^^I ^^just ^^got ^^to...

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Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

yeah i get that...did people know that you stuttered? Not one person, aside from my parents who half way dont believe me, know i stutter...ive gotten so good as word subbing that its second nature. it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

I really hope so...I just don't see a time for instance, where I'm going to a party or bar with friends and girls that telling them that I stutter is socially acceptable...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

what was it like socially with a silent block? did it inhibit you in any ways?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2014
2 points

You can't let your stutter define who you are. I stutter, and I am a first year associate at a large law firm. My stutter isn't too bad when I am speaking to somebody one-on-one, but it gets pretty b...

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2014
2 points

It's nothing to do with this subreddit, but expanding my vocabulary helped me a lot. I'm a covert stutterer, where I get silent blocks a lot. Nobody aside from my parents know I stutter, and even they...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2014
2 points

> I probably spend 15 seconds a day actually experiencing stuttering, but the remaining 23 hours, 59 minutes and 45 seconds are spent being anxious, worried, and stressed over the next time I might...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2014
3 points

No, I don't think I've ever told someone I have a stutter (I'm sure most people figure it out). I'm sure I had some minor disfluencies during the interview; I typically don't notice when I'm stutteri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2014
2 points

As you presumably know, it is easy to tell sometimes when a block is coming in. If I can't get past it, I have a few techniques: - 'So I was walking to the ______ umm, yeah the __shops the other day....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2014
5 points

Are you a covert stutterer? Do you use word substitution a lot (change difficult words to ones you feel you can say)?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2014
1 points

It's easier for me, when I can't hear myself, that's why I listen to music when I need to speak for long periods of time, just my experience anyway. And yes sometimes we can be, with avoidance etc. ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2014
1 points

I think it might be more about us feeling safer, like we have more leeway than about other people being too consumed. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2014
2 points

I'm right there with you, friend. I'm four months shy of my 30th birthday. Have been in one form or another of speech therapy since I was 5. My stutter too, is so severe it can take me upwards of te...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2014
4 points

Thanks. In the event that people do want some sprucing, my vote is for it to be mild in appearance and scope....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2014
3 points

It's a weird feeling eh? I actually don't even remember stuttering in grades 1-8, but when I ask my old friends if I stuttered they all said yes which is really strange. However I do remember one mome...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2014
4 points

Yes I feel like that all the time. I started stuttering since I was 13 and I remember being a fluent speaker before that. I was a smooth talker, popular amongst my peers etc..but I don't know what the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2014
1 points

I'm kinda more surprised you even go to a teller. I can maybe think of two stops on my line that even have a teller, NY and Newark Penn. The rest are machine only. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career