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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2013
1 points

Hi SLP, on a related note, what you're saying is true but I want to also say that slowing down isn't the answer for every stutterer. It doesn't work with me for example, because I'm not going to slow ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2013
1 points

I think that's very close to how I treat it too. And thankfully, I can't think of any situation in *my* personal/professional life where it is relevant enough....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2013
2 points

I only address my stutter if and when it becomes relevant. No need to bring it up before then. My stutter may be a part of me, but it is not such an important that I have to identify it first and fore...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2013
2 points

Hmmm, whatever works, I guess! However, I oppose telling people about your stutter without them asking about it, right at the outset when meeting someone for the first time or for an interview. I pers...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2013
2 points

Gotcha. I think I've had the same experience. When I self-identified myself as a stutterer, my stuttering slightly increased when I was talking my thoughts to myself....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2013
2 points

I think we all enjoy a good talk, maybe its the way WE perceive talking that we like it so much, I personally enjoy been with excelent conversators, even if I´m not contributing to much to the convers...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
2 points

I think what you mean by embracing and what my friends/family mean by ignoring are pretty similar - like a mute acceptance but not dwelling on it at all. Basically, they think that recognition for cha...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2013
1 points

"We'd much rather have people accuse us of being slow, articulate speakers, than stutterers" I disagree, I would rather stutter than talk like a robot. ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2013
1 points

I can confirm this. At my old job, I became a manager and was so confident in my ability to make sandwiches and prep food that I could smooth talk anyone about anything. Take me out of that environmen...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2013
3 points

I've experienced this too at times but not when I'm practicing lines in my head. Sometimes, talking in the mirror and making eye contact with myself while practicing talking has helped me. Forcing eye...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2013
1 points

I've stuttered my whole life. As I got older, starting in college, it got a lot less pronounced, but there are still times when I have a noticeable stutter. Two of these times was during two separate ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
1 points

That's going to a pretty great length to avoid stuttering. You really should try to be more comfortable with your own stutter (I know that's not something you can just snap your fingers and do, it doe...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
2 points

I think that sometimes, but in reality struggling to get out my name is no fun for me, or the person I'm talking to. It's so tempting to chose an easier name to say. But then again, i realize it's...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
6 points

Thanks! I agree, but like OP says- it gets old. Plus, I was in the mind set of arguing when I walked in (occupational hazard). Would I do it in any other circumstance-no. Do I regret saying it- no. ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
4 points

I just feel bad for the cause i know the second they find out i stutter they will have the worst feels in years. So i usually end up just smiling and saying "nahbro, sorry im a full-time stutterer". ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
1 points

Oh believe me i have a smile on my face, and sometimes its enough. Im looking for something that helps other than that, some people get REALLY "ohshitohmygodfuckfuckfuck" if they go something like "lo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2013
5 points

That happened to me the other day... in court. I'm an attorney and I was speaking to a secretary of the DA to continue a case and she asked my name- of course it stuttered out. She said "don't you eve...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 1, 2013
3 points

One liners for removing the stutter-taboo.

One liners for removing the stutter-taboo. Often when i meet new people someon plops out something like "You cold or something?" And i mention i always stutter. 90% I can feel the other person think "...

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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2013
1 points

Sorry that I'm late to responding here, but I do have a story about an awesome Oral Composition Teacher I had in my senior year of high school. Before my senior year started, I had the choice to tak...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2013
2 points

As a stutterer, i am in. I think it is a good idea to get together as a group and just have a discussion about anything, to allow us to be ourselves. I am curious if our stutter will improve/worsen wh...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking