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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2014
5 points

I find, in many situations, it benefits me and the listener to let them know that, "Hi, I have a stutter, please be a little patient." It can lighten the mood and make the listener less anxious and mo...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2014
5 points

I would practice your part a lot. having it down pat will be one less thing your brain has to worry about. Secondly, i'd do my best to keep things slow and steady as you speak. for me, once my nerves ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalFluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2014
2 points

I'm kind of late to the party but have you tried online dating? By the time you meet face to face you'll already know a lot about the other person and you'll feel more comfortable talking to them...an...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2014
1 points

I definitely have never been told it's hot. Though I have been told that my stutter (and the manner in which I have overcome it) marks me as someone who is a master of their destiny by a girl I dated ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PridePersonal StoriesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2014
1 points

I guess it's not dumber. I guess the main thing would be to be careful not to fetishize them. So go with the whole genuineness thing....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2014
9 points

I have received this comment. I felt fairly objectified and annoyed, but also amused and curious. Notice that while not all of those are totally negative reactions, none of them are exactly swooning e...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2014
2 points

There are organizations like the [National Stuttering Association](http://www.westutter.org) and [Stuttering Foundation](http://www.stutteringhelp.org/) that promote awareness of stuttering, you could...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Advice OfferedPublic Awareness / MediaDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2014
1 points

I've always just apologized and laughed it off or made a little joke about it. After that I tell them about it, and for the most part they are perfectly OK with it. Good luck (:...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2014
1 points

Have you ever tried disclosing (revealing you stutter). For some people, they disclose right off the bat and it helps take some of the pressure off as both parties are aware of the situation. It is im...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2014
1 points

Yep, hate it. I find spelling my name out letter by letter helps. So what if it sounds odd, most business prefer it this way anyway to make sure they get it correct. Same for information, phone numbe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2014
4 points

I've met a few individuals who say their stuttering increases when speaking to other people who stutter. And, I've also met plenty who say their stuttering decreases. It really just seems to depend on...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice OfferedDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2014
6 points

I am a college professor who stutters. In my first day of class, during introductions, I tell them I stutter and that if they don't understand something I say I would be happy to repeat. My stutter is...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2014
8 points

*Yes,it is the right etiquette.But you shouldn't exactly pretend like he doesn't stutter,you should acknowledge it and make him know that you do and it's okay.It will make it easier for him because it...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2014
3 points

Mate, keep doing what your doing. It took me nearly a year to find my first job. I stuttered like crazy on the phone and I stuttered like crazy during the interview. Guess what? I got the job. It hel...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2014
1 points

I didn't have problems finding work. It's really all about who you know IMO. Once you get your foot in the door, its up to you. My stutter isn't that severe compared to some I know, but whenever ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2014
2 points

Finding work with a stutter is a pita. Here in Germany we send the application in the mail. We also write a (small) letter with the application in which we introduce our self and often say why we wan...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2013
1 points

Whenever I have to speak to a group, I now always preface with "I have a bit of a stammer, so if I get caught-up, please bear with me". When I do stutter, I see supportive smiles on the faces of the ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2013
1 points

Aside from more fluent speaking I learned to be more open about my stutter from the clinic. Before I would do anything to hide it. From the clinic I gained an appreciation for being more open about it...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2013
1 points

I don't bring it up unless they ask what I am studying for school and why is it that I want to be a speech pathologist. Now, when I was dating I knew I had to bring it up once I knew the guy a bit m...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomanceHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2013
1 points

I'm glad you have such a great attitude! Do you ever tell new people that you stutter before you really converse with them or do you just address it if they ask about it? ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride