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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2015
1 points

Really depends on how it is said to me. If they seem like they are doing it in a "friendly" (like you can tell they were thinking it maybe a joke) I usualy will just politely respond "No, I just have ...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2015
1 points

I think that makes sense. I usually like to announce it to people when I first meet them though, I think it not only makes things easier for me but it also helps people to understand stuttering. Jus...

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postr/StutterJan 23, 2015
5 points

How do you respond to "forgot your name?"

How do you respond to "forgot your name?" Generally, because if you're like me and you get that question maybe 1 in every 3 times you go to order food or meet people, I think it's important to recogni...

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postr/StutterJan 11, 2015
26 points

Today, I let it all out

Today, I let it all out Today, I did something I never did and thought that I probably never will; I went to people I know and deliberately talked to them about my stutter. It's been 20 years, life i...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2015
2 points

I feel you pain. I'm sure we can all sympathize with feeling closed off from the world. Struggling with tasks that come naturally to others is emotionally taxing. Last year I was interviewing for jo...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2015
1 points

When I first sit down with an interviewer I like to start with something like, "Before we begin I'd like you to be aware that I do have a mild stutter so if, at any time, I stumble on a word please j...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2015
3 points

Sometimes if its unavoidable it makes things easier to tell the person you are talking to sometimes "hey I've got this speech disorder thing", especially interviews. Don't beat yourself up over it eve...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2014
4 points

I would like to wear that hat when a cop pulls me over, I always get pity from them when they see I have a stutter. Not sure if its a good thing or a bad thing....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2014
3 points

I might need one of these, if only because it'd take me 10 minutes to say "I stutter" otherwise....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2014
6 points

Believe it or not, I've never attended any meetings hosted by the National Stuttering Association here in Boston, but I absolutely would love to begin doing so, and rather soon, if possible. In the me...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2014
5 points

This very hat was custom-made to perfection. I am not sure if you currently reside within the United States, but I had this done at Lids, which can normally be found at most malls. I am not sure if al...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2014
7 points

And for those who would do such a thing, disregard them entirely and continue about your business with confidence. You cannot allow those very remarks to continue emotionally affecting you. The people...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2014
3 points

Hmmmm I would wear that but I know I'd recieve hundreds of snide remarks on my college campus because of it... Fuck people right? ...

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postr/StutterDec 24, 2014
24 points

"Would if offend you if I told you I like your stutter?"

"Would if offend you if I told you I like your stutter?" I made a comment about this [10 months ago](http://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/1yrhns/how_would_you_feel_if_someone_genuinly_told_you/cfn...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2014
1 points

I can commiserate, interviewing always makes me a little anxious and I've had four in the past few weeks. I'm a registered nurse. I've had mixed results introducing myself as someone who stutters. 2...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2014
3 points

This is extremely hard to do and I understand, but I like to start out job interviews by politely saying something along the lines of, "Before we begin I just wanted to let you know I do have a mild s...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2014
1 points

Honestly have you though about online dating? It's a lot easier to talk to someone on there and you can be up front to them about your stutter right away....

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postr/StutterNov 25, 2014
8 points

Any clever response to "heh, not sure about your name?" after exchanging names?

Any clever response to "heh, not sure about your name?" after exchanging names? I usually do a soft laugh because i know they will probably be embarrassed when they figure out that i have a stutter, w...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2014
2 points

I try to tell my close friends. I don't pass it off as a legitimate stutter unless they're pretty educated or else it just ends up in an endless conversation about how they can try help me, "slow down...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2014
6 points

well it was that easy, i just told her, she said she would never had noticed if i didnt tell her, but everything went ok, im so relaxed and happy right now...

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