commentr/StutterDecember 28, 2014

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And for those who would do such a thing, disregard them entirely and continue about your business with confidence. You cannot allow those very remarks to continue emotionally affecting you. The people you're describing will always exist, but what we can control is how we *respond* to said remarks, which will make a difference. On the contrary, to potentialy inspire you or a fellow stutterer who may encounter this comment, a couple of nights ago, I was riding on the subway while wearing the very hat in the posted image, and simply going about my business on my smartphone. Out of instinct, for a brief second, I then looked at the person sitting across from me, which he had noticed, and instantly gave me a smile and a thumbs up with such enthuasiasm. I looked back at him with a smile, as well, as he was pointing out the message on my hat. Upon that, he offered me a fist bump, which I absolutely proceeded with, all before he got off at his next stop! This was a random encounter with a complete stranger on a train! That particular occurrence not only made my day, but it also made my life, given the years of negative experiences with numerous individuals as a result of my speech impediment and how I would respond to said individuals. It showed me that there really are good-spirited, supportive people out there. It showed me that there really is nothing to be afraid of. Coming from my recent experiences, including the story above, if you were to publicly wear a hat with the very message engraved on mine, people will be pleasantly suprised and commend you for your bravery; that is my promise. **EDIT:** Slight corrections here and there.

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Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships

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Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others