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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2015
4 points

Dude I feel you. Don't know why I'm going to tell you this, but the part about how we react to the pitfalls got me thinking about the worst encounter I've ever had with a stutter. Some D-bag was wi...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2015
2 points

I would be superficial and say "Don't worry bro, you got this!" But right now I'm just too pissed and depressed to bother. Hope you have a better year this year than I've had during the last one. ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2015
7 points

Dude, you don't have to be ashamed of yourself for crying. This shit gets emotional, not being able to express yourself through words is one thing most people have no idea about. No idea how it feels ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2014
1 points

I don't think he cares, just the kind of guy to use humor to diffuse an awkward situation. I have encountered few people who were insensitive even after explaining and saying I'm retarded and shit, bu...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Humor & Community ToneFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterDec 30, 2014
5 points

addressing the elephant in the room has made things almost worse...?

addressing the elephant in the room has made things almost worse...? My bf and I were in a LDR for roughly 11 months, which made hiding it easier. I am usually quiet anyway though. Though he never men...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2014
2 points

This is what I meant when I said that I "know all this", I know that people doesn't care whether you stutter or not, they are busy being themselves. And if they do care, how does that matter? The poin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
2 points

When I was 15 I got a summer job waiting tables. It was high stress and I was dysfluent. A big table laughed at me when I stuttered the specials but I chalked it up to them being fuckfaces. Overall, i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterNov 4, 2014
11 points

Frustration with speech

Frustration with speech For the past two weeks I've just been having such a hard time controlling my stutter. Today has been especially frustrating because today someone asked me the name of one my go...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Frustration & AngerBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2014
3 points

I don't relate to many of these at all. I definitely dislike people finishing my sentences, but that's about as far as I go. It missed ones like that horrible face I make as I crash head on into my ow...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 24, 2014
12 points

In view of Stuttering Awareness Day (Oct 22), tell your story.

In view of Stuttering Awareness Day (Oct 22), tell your story. My story: I have stuttered since I could remember, mine is rather pronounced but not severe. I cannot hide it but I have managed with it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2014
5 points

Don't commit suicide. I don't know what you believe, but I think that when I die, it's over. It's better to live for one more second than to die right now. Of course it's frustrating. There's nothing...

Emotional Experience
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

How to calm down after you bombed??? after you bombed an interview or something. I have never been able to accept the speech problem. Coz I was good at hiding or overpowering it. So when I bombed an interview or a presentation, or an important thing because of it, it was hard to overcome.How2moveOn?

How to calm down after you bombed??? after you bombed an interview or something. I have never been able to accept the speech problem. Coz I was good at hiding or overpowering it. So when I bombed an i...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
1 points

I'll be honest, I was not able to get through your article at the moment because I'm on vacation with family and chasing my 1 year old around. What I did read of it I liked though. It's very thoughtfu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I just can't seem to be ok with stuttering. There are a few moments when I am ok with stuttering in a moment and I can calm down and just stutter easily but most of the time im uncontrollably trying s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
2 points

The one thing that really pisses me off is when people tell me to talk slower, i mean.. if i could i would god dammit! (minor rant sorry)...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2014
1 points

Well... Then fuck 'em. If they get impatient over your stuttering, you know what kind of people they are and that you don't have to give them a shred of your concern or thought. Just keep trying to ge...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2014
2 points

Oh man I wish that was the case but I do work in fast food and people do get pissed :( I've had to deal with really rude customers telling me all kinds of things about my stuttering! ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
2 points

Yes, everyone knows my stutter I have the option just to do backline away from people or talking but I feel like I'm jut hiding from my problems so I force myself into the other positions. How come I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2014
3 points

Rule sticky's are always good. In regards to rule #2, i think some people just need an accepting place where they can come and vent frustrations to people who understand that they might not be able t...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2014
1 points

"Sorry for the long and somewhat depressing post everyone. I just really needed to blow some steam and punching the wall isn't an option at the moment." Yea, before I wrote one of my posts, I punched...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger