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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2018
1 points

Have each family member do some sort of speech exercise with you. Also, join a group in college. Go to many events. Bring a card letting them know you stutter. It's not to late to build things up....

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2018
1 points

Keep in mind that the education can go in a lot of direction. You could became a pharmacist or researcher, etc. (by just adding a few extra classes). So don't let anything keep you from going to med s...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2018
2 points

When you have a block.. break off on that conversation just to say you have a stutter. And then try to resume. Sometimes that informs people to be patient, and they may even take more initiative on ma...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2018
2 points

Sometimes you have to just let it out. I don't begrudge a person their anger, as long as they don't curse themselves for stuttering. It's no crime to stutter. I've encountered some who think I'm rude...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2018
2 points

I’m a receptionist and have a lot of coping mechanisms and strategies to help me get though speech blocks and if I slip up people always say “woah calm down, it’s okay” like shut up ...

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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2018
4 points

So people should just guess whether their question has been asked before? If you don’t stutter, you probably won’t have any idea how common it is to be asked something like that. In my opinion, as l...

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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2018
1 points

I can see how that question and those like it get old though. For every person to ask that question once, people who stutter frequently will be asked that question 50-100 times just based on the perce...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2018
1 points

I just graduated from college, and sort of remember my orientation. From my experience I feel like half of the day was just listening to other people talk, or meeting with advisors. The other half w...

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Anticipating StutteringPreparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
postr/StutterJul 2, 2018
3 points

Finding opportunities to disclose the stutter

Finding opportunities to disclose the stutter Hello again everybody! This is my 2nd post on this reddit and I just want to say that it really is great to have a place where all of us can discuss our s...

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postr/StutterJun 29, 2018
2 points

To disclose or not to disclose

To disclose or not to disclose Hello fellas, Recently I have been pondering about this. I apologize that this might be a long one, but hopefully people who come across this can give me insights. Ba...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2018
7 points

I could not agree more. I am 33 and I have been stuttering since I was four years old. It used to hamper me until my 20's when I stopped giving a fuck. I stopped giving a fuck because I realized th...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2018
12 points

If you have a strong personality, stuttering can even help by 'disarming' you in a way. I notice that it can help people in opening up to you easier....

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2018
5 points

It's pretty rare for a stutter to develop at this age but not unheard of. Many people say their stutter is affected by their sleep. First thing I would do is seek out a speech therapist. I dont know...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2018
3 points

If people laugh at your stutter that says more about them than about you. Today someone hung up on me at work too. But that doesn't make me an *insert juvenile profanity*. Instead I regrouped and cal...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2018
2 points

Not to be a dick but there’s a reason why they say don’t do drugs. Tell your co workers and your boss and see if they could get some resources for you....

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2018
1 points

My psychiatrist told me to "vaccinate" a group of people (such as a class) by stuttering the first time you meet them, so they already know you stutter and will be mindful in the future when you do! ...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2018
1 points

im 36 years old..have always had a severe stutter, around my late 20s i finally had enough of it. Was tired of running away from it, letting it control my life, making me avoid things i needed to do ...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2018
1 points

Thank you. I really appreciate that. I have heard of stutter-talk before and checked out a few podcasts. The people on that podcast certainly have the right mindset for dealing with their situations. ...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2018
1 points

Wow! I have got to give you great credit because I know being a single parent, raising kids is not easy. I'm not a parent and I don't have kids, but my sister does and honestly I don't know how she do...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2018
0 points

I disagree with your disagreement. I’m 32 and I let my stutter dictate almost every aspect of my life. Job, relationships, activities, heck even ordering food. Thinking that people care about your st...

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