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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2026
-1 points

You stutter because your nervous system couldn’t cope with the first сильный испуг (strong shock/fear). The body reacted with freezing and tension. The nervous system remembered this reaction and now ...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalLoss of Control
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2026
3 points

In the nervous system, two programs work simultaneously: one is your real, natural speech, and the other is the stuttering program. They function in parallel and can conflict with each other. When th...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Neurological & BrainLoss of Control
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2026
3 points

It’s not a curse. The problem is a primary fear that the nervous system failed to process, so it keeps replaying the reaction to it over and over again, repeatedly re-triggering the original fright....

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalLoss of Control
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2026
8 points

No offense but your mother know nothing about stuttering and human emotions. the one question that she should ask is why, why you want to hide your stutter. and like severe stuttering is really bad, y...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoss of Control
postr/StutterJan 9, 2026
3 points

Does anyone else tend to reply super fast, like immediately, when asked a question?

Does anyone else tend to reply super fast, like immediately, when asked a question? I take language lessons and my teacher who knows I stutter has noticed several thing as my stutter which has gotten ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoss of ControlOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2026
1 points

The problem is that stuttering is triggered faster than a person can apply any conscious tool. When a block begins, there is simply no time to use breathing techniques or self-regulation — the process...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Loss of ControlStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2026
1 points

Alright, here’s the text in English: --- Imagine your nervous system lifted a barbell and couldn’t put it down. In that moment, you experienced muscle tension, fear, and tremor — and your nervous s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoss of Control
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2026
1 points

You don’t stutter when you’re alone because there’s no external trigger. For people like you, another person acts as a trigger, not the cause. You don’t stutter alone because your nervous system isn’...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterJan 5, 2026
13 points

Why do we even stutter?

Why do we even stutter? Have you ever just stared into the mirror and thought, why do I even stutter like what do I have or don't have that others non stutters do. Is there something wrong with my tro...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Neurological & BrainLoss of Control
postr/StutterJan 4, 2026
6 points

Am I going insane or does talking really fast at times help my stutter?

Am I going insane or does talking really fast at times help my stutter? I know this sounds stupid and very different from the usual advice that people give about talking really slow if you stutter, bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringLoss of Control
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
1 points

Talking actually requires very little air, Why are you saying speech requires a very controlled exhale? The *root* thing blocking the exhale is a fear-based valsalva. I’m aware it can be difficult ...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingLoss of ControlAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2026
2 points

If you are wondering if that impacts your breathing, it very very likely does not. Your regular breathing when talking is probably fine - the issue is likely an unwanted valsalva response from fear ...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Fluency TechniquesLoss of Control
postr/StutterDec 31, 2025
5 points

Advice for a severe stutterer

Advice for a severe stutterer So I’m 19 who has lived with a stutter right after the age of 7-8, it has consumed me and absolutely feels like its ruining my life that I’ve finally decided to seek advi...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesLoss of ControlAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 25, 2025
8 points

Getting stuck mid-conversation

Getting stuck mid-conversation What do you guys do when you’re blocked in the middle of a situation? How do you get out of it if the block is so intense that you can’t say a word? Sometimes I feel lik...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesLoss of ControlHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2025
1 points

I think it is great that you found a way to voluntarily control your Valsalva response which is usually the main cause of stuttering. When I was able to teach my brain how to voluntarily control my Va...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Fluency TechniquesLoss of Control
postr/StutterDec 22, 2025
3 points

Does anyone else stutter or get stuck talking to ai?

Does anyone else stutter or get stuck talking to ai? I think being speechless or stuttering manifests itself under pressure from the other person's self-consciousness (you have to say it quickly). It ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringLoss of Control
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
2 points

You will need to be careful with this. you cannot be sure that what looks like nodding or even what sounds like "yeah" in a smaller voice means confirmation. "nodding" can be the beginning of an attem...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsLoss of ControlAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2025
1 points

Like some people with an actual neurological stutter find themselves fluent when they get really mad or as you said life or death. It’s weird how the brain works. But I stutter when I’m alone, with my...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightLoss of Control
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2025
2 points

This is an interesting view, and I think I agree….?? Haven’t really thought about it being 100% anxiety. I knew that was a component, for sure. I don’t stutter when talking to myself. And I usually d...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightLoss of Control
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2025
2 points

If you’re not stuttering when you’re alone then you don’t actually have a stutter. You just have anxiety....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoss of Control