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commentr/StutterSep 30, 2019
14 points

as an instance for giving speeches or presentations, i used to start with phrases like “now this would normally take like 5 minutes but i’ll have to take 15 since my tongue cant keep up so bear with m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2019
1 points

Negative reaction- I think to myself “oh this is foreign to them it’s no biggie” but if they say something again while they know I stutter than there is an issue...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2019
4 points

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend for mocking my stutter. Didn't even bother to tell him to stop it because I shouldn't ever have to do that. People who makes fun of my stutter is not welcome in my life...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
1 points

I can see what you mean. I’ve had some people make fun of me that I thought understood so I was hurt by that. I could explain that it’s something I don’t like joking about which kinda helps make thing...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
3 points

I cant say thank you at all, I always say "thanks" though ive been remarked by people how just saying thanks by itself is rude and I honestly have no clue if it is...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2019
6 points

Im the same exact way! It already shows theyre immature and closed minded lol why would I wanna talk to anyone like that...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
1 points

keep an iron grip on their hand to A S S E R T D O M I N A N C E...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
1 points

this is a kind post. thank you \>> you shared: *I would like to protect them from embarrassment, but I also don't want to meddle and end up creating embarrassment for them.* \*pws not to be...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
7 points

Great question. I lacked the courage to disclose until about age 25. The opposite of disclosing is trying to keep it a secret. Secrecy does not provide harmony within the pws. Like Jekyl and Hyd...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
3 points

I agree with a lot of the other advice here. I’ll keep it short: Whatever you do, don’t think of yourself as trying to “help them”. They live with their stutter every minute of every day and your atte...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
2 points

Thank you for replying, and yeah I’ve witnessed people picking at my boyfriends stutter but I didn’t know wether to intervene or what, afterwards I did drop that person a message and called them out. ...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
3 points

I used to hate it. Sometimes it really annoys me, but I get more annoyed at the people who treat me like dogshit when I stutter. Now I’m definitely more accepting of it and 100% more likely to call ou...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
8 points

so there are 3 things really here. 1. the first is how you personally should react when the person stutters. I would say, if its mild- moderate- as in its noticeable but does not lead to a break down...

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postr/StutterSep 26, 2019
25 points

How do I help a coworker that stutters?

How do I help a coworker that stutters? Sorry if this is a regular post, I scrolled a bit and didn't see anything that answered my question. My job is possibly going to hire someone I've indirectly ...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

I find face to face way easier. It's a lot harder for people to cut me off and talk over me when I'm right in front of them...

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Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2019
5 points

I'm also in leadership at a tech company. I agree that small talk is painful but I work remote so I get out of doing most of that. I also lead a group of developers who do not like to engage in any fo...

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Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 17, 2019
75 points

Stutter Badly but Saved a Person's Life

Stutter Badly but Saved a Person's Life Long story short: One of the people I'm flatting with was unresponsive on the kitchen floor. Initiative took over and I dialed an amublance and had to explain i...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2019
2 points

Hahaha! Totally know how you feel man. Just keep letting them know. If they feel offended then screw their feelings cause you were trespassed first. You need to not be interrupted like any other human...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2019
0 points

Depends who it is. My family knows better. If it's a stranger I'll try to calmly explain to them to never do that to a stutterer. If I haven't consistently taken my meds recently, watch out. I'll prob...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2019
3 points

I hate that line of reasoning. "He's young, he doesn't completely know what he's doing!" Okay, so teach him. Correct his behavior before it becomes a pattern. Don't just let a problem continue. At...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency