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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2020
1 points

Since it's subjective I think you should ask him. Lately I've found that I hate when somebody looks away while I stutter....

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2020
1 points

I've gotten better about it over the years. This sketch is hilarious and extremely relatable. I'm an Army NCO currently and it's pretty hard to be the "big mean scary" sergeant when I have to be. I'll...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2020
2 points

I agree with everyone else that there is no universal rule. I would just ask; I'm sure he would appreciate it. I personally like when someone just waits and maintains attention while I take a breath...

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postr/StutterFeb 2, 2020
5 points

How do you prefer people to be while you're stuttering?

How do you prefer people to be while you're stuttering? Apologies in advance if my word choice is in any way offensive, trying to be respectful. A new friend of mine has a stutter. I once read that "...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
1 points

At the same time, you really don't think it's just a little dismissive to tell someone having a problem with it to just never mind and be the alpha? Seriously?...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
4 points

Just start the conversation by saying you stutter and may need some extra time....

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
3 points

[https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/cuk6h3/vicious\_cycle\_vent/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/cuk6h3/vicious_cycle_vent/) Really? Because it seems like it was preventing you li...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
2 points

Superior perception? I can say with confidence my perception level runs quite low. Kidding aside, I understand your message. May not be the most realistic way to deliver it, though....

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
7 points

>be the alpha in the room >psychologically dominating a social environment >gifted with superior perception >Impress people (wow he’s confident for a stutterer) - ... - Where in the...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
6 points

Heads up boys. Acknowledge your stutter, don’t confront it. When questioned about it, make it seem irrelevant, just another inconvenience. Sound unimpressed, be the alpha in the room. My severe stutte...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
2 points

Yeah this is all nerves. It'll get better. Definitely find a private place where you can tell your manager that you have a stutter. They undoubtedly know something is up already but qualifying their h...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
6 points

Bro if you're constantly gasping for air, you're not doing yout stutter any favour. Every few words, (1,2, or 3) take a good breath from your nose. I personally take a break every 2 words. And discuss...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2020
3 points

People suck. Just be you. My dad always told me “Never apologize to people for your stutter. There’s nothing wrong with you”. It was the best thing he ever told me....

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2020
2 points

ive mentioned mine to people and i got so mant supportive responses from people ive worked in my nonprofit org with. The only thing is they INSIST on putting me around people and in jobs where i have ...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
3 points

Same here! I forced myself to step out of my comfort zone and just do it. Did I stutter? Of course. Did I keep doing it, YES I did. I learned that by disclosing my stutter, it allowed me to educ...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
1 points

Thanks for your response! And yeah that sounds about right, I think I’m going to say it in the beginning, then try and sneak it in but do what you’re saying (use it as a way to show my character as a ...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
2 points

Use a buffer word, that helps me. For example, "Hi, my name is Pedro". "Hello, my name is Pedro " or my favorite "Howdy, my name is Pedro ". If all else fails, just disclose your stutter and end ...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
2 points

Yes, this is what I say to myself... they dont care and 3hours from now they wont even remember my face, let alone the stutter. I spoke to my direct manager too. She knows the problem. Thank you for y...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
2 points

I have developed a coping mechanism.. I imagine 3 hours after the meeting, will I be as stressed as I am now? Will anyone care about the fact I stuttered through another meeting? It lowers my anxiety ...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2020
1 points

If they don't catch on, I would recommend telling people about it if it becomes noticeable. People are usually chill about it with me....

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