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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
12 points

This is something that took me a long time to learn. I used to make a lot of excuses for people who teased me about stuttering because I was insecure about it myself. Nowadays I do my best to call p...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2020
0 points

They don’t have to understand. What they have to know is to not make you feel bad because of it. Trust me. It will help the process....

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
2 points

Its something we are all born with. Something is not how it should be in our brains. Nothing major just. Its not something that will dissapear or solutions for. The best way to deal with it is make yo...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
2 points

Another thing that you should be aware of are things that tick people who stutter off. I speak for myself when I say I hate when people finish my sentences, cringe when i’m having a hard time getting ...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2020
5 points

That's great to hear! If your son isn't worrying about it, then he's set. I see. There have been cases, albeit rare, of PWS getting pulled over &/or being mistaken to being on drugs. I have a st...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2020
1 points

I'd advise against taking it to higher authority. You'll ended up retroactively embarrassed. This is something you're going to have to deal with forever. Best to handle internally. This is just my exp...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2020
4 points

Be nothing but factual and blunt. No swearing. Nothing like that. Be the undeniable good guy. Be extremely professional. You can give them no wiggle room here....

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2020
1 points

Honestly, the biggest part wasn't on me, but was rather making sure that the groups I was a part of knew what was going on and how to handle it (i.e., they didn't have to do anything or feel bad, it j...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
0 points

Record. It's not illegal for 1:1 conversations in North America directed specifically to you. The only time HR works in your favour is when you present a liability to their credibility or profits. If ...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
1 points

When you have a family to support, mortgage, bills, and all that it's not so cut and dry. Rocking the boat can get me in a bad position. I would approach HR if I actually had proof, but doing what you...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2020
0 points

Dude, what kind of messed up people do you work for? Hold your ground when people demote you and put you down like that. I know you need a job to survive, but have some self-respect Jesus. If a boss w...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2020
2 points

There’s been a spike of child abuse and domestic violence due to this lockdown. I’m sorry for what you are going through. Stand up for yourself if possible and make some boundaries. If you feel unsafe...

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commentr/StutterMar 24, 2020
13 points

I used to do that but recently I've been taking the time to correct myself, painful as it is. The cashier can wait on me, I'm not embarrassed...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2020
1 points

My teachers call on me then cut me off when I take too long to talk (aka blocking) and it pisses me off. Don’t tell me to speak and then cut me off....

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2020
3 points

Tips on how to deal with special situations? Like different options on how to introduce stuttering before/during a job interview, how to handle laughing people during presentations, ......

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2020
8 points

Your instructor would be wrong to just let this happen AND reduce your grade as a result. I don’t know the answer. Stuttering is a disability. You don’t dock someone with a disability because they’re ...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2020
16 points

A lot of time I insisted to be included in presentations. It's not my fault I stutter, so buckle up and listen to me because I prepared this interesting shit....

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2020
5 points

I used to go up to the teachers after class and ask why they cut my stutter off and would they do that to someone with a physical disability. Shame the hell out of them, it works. Also they get scared...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2020
6 points

It's terribly difficult to control other people's actions. It's not really something to strive for, to be honest. All we can do is focus on what we want to say, and carry it out as reasonably as we ca...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2020
3 points

This episode with Biden is one of the biggest drivers for me to gain and maintain fluency. You don't everyone to be dick, you just need one person who doesn't see you as good enough to change the outc...

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