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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2020
8 points

I would mention your stutter early in the interview. Perhaps the first thing. I read in a Larry King book "how to have a conversation" that you should mention your thing at first so that people know w...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterFeb 4, 2020
3 points

Struggling so much with blocks

Struggling so much with blocks I don’t know why my switch flips so fast but recently it has. My blocks are so bad and I can barely even say a sentence smoothly. I have a presentation next week ( a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2020
2 points

H is easy for me, and even if a hard letter is right after it the easy start makes the hard letter much easier to say, like I get momentum of some kind. But introducing myself? Fuck no. Why couldn’t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2020
4 points

running it through your head millions of times, feeling the intense anxiety as they near your name, oh yeah it’s real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
12 points

Does anyone else have an "optimal speaking rhythm"?

Does anyone else have an "optimal speaking rhythm"? When I was younger, my mom used to tell me to try tapping my thigh if I started stuttering. It didn't make sense to me then, but after speech therap...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Fluency TechniquesAnticipating StutteringRepetitions & Prolongations+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
2 points

I think it's called exposition. It helps a lot in many situations because you became more confident. Someone says that stutter could born from an association between an event like a normal stuttering ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterJan 31, 2020
3 points

Evening stuttering prevention thoughts over tea.

Evening stuttering prevention thoughts over tea. In psychology there is a theory used for people with fear of things such as heights, spiders ect.. I think its called the brute force theory where you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2020
1 points

First of all, things will get better. Moods affect the stutter a lot. My stutter actually decreased a lot in my senior year of high school because I really started to accept my stutter as a part of wh...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftFluency Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterJan 23, 2020
47 points

Just booked my 1st speaking engagement

Just booked my 1st speaking engagement A few weeks ago I submitted 2 papers to be reviewed as part of an application to speak at a medium-sized tech conference in Budapest in March. Well, one of my pa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterJan 18, 2020
57 points

I dont stutter when I 'forget' that i stutter.

I dont stutter when I 'forget' that i stutter. Like sometimes I would wake up and my mind would be occupied with thoughts of the long day awaiting me in college or whatever, and I would be speaking fl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringCycles & RandomnessVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2020
3 points

Today I had give a presentation without a paper to read or reference from. It was so horrible, I could barely put together 2 words. I even got stuck on words with my eyes closed...im sure people thoug...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
postr/StutterJan 14, 2020
51 points

They way you breath affects speech

They way you breath affects speech Hello everyone! Something interesting happened to me today that I would like to share with all of you and maybe you can implement this into your daily life. I am in ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringFluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2020
2 points

Yes I do believe that noticing my fluency rate was falling increased my stress. I have been trying to not think about my stutter as much and just go ahead and say what I want to say which has been hel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJan 12, 2020
8 points

My experience with stuttering

My experience with stuttering I am 20 years old and have had a small speech impediment since I was 4. I remember it being very bad when I was younger, but I saw a speech pathologist. One teacher would...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2020
1 points

Definitely, or when I try to speak before thinking and it just doesn't come out right. Either that or when I'm tired. It's probably why I go quiet alot of the time as I'm usually anxious around other ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 11, 2020
38 points

My Story

My Story Guys I just joined this subreddit but I feel it is necessary to share my story directly taken from my college common app essay. Remember there is always hope:) The Bane of the Invisible Man ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2020
3 points

I often get the sense of being about to stutter. But it's not always accurate, sometimes I know a word is going to suck - but I don't have any other options, but I get to the word and just keep on go...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringExperiential Association
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2020
4 points

I’ve found that for me, I can feel the back of my throat tense up when I know there’s a troubling word ahead. Then when I get to that word, my speech mechanism refuses to cooperate with what I want it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringPhysical Tension
postr/StutterJan 9, 2020
14 points

You can do it. Do not give up hope.

You can do it. Do not give up hope. Extremely long time lurker. First time poster. I just wanted to share that I’ve been a stutterer since I was a child (M 28). I started my IT career about 5 years ag...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2020
1 points

I’m pretty fluent at this point in my life, but just the other day I woke up in a panic when I realized I was going to a meeting where I would have to introduce myself to a group of people. I usually ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more