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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
1 points

Snowboarding the other day, for insight I am 39, two guys come screaming down the hill and get in a fight in front of me. I break it up, accidentally popping the one kid in the lip. I stuttered afte...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
1 points

When I was younger and my stutter was worse, I ended up shutting up as people would just talk over me and not wait for me to say what I had to say, these days although I do stutter a fair amount still...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
2 points

I don't mind if someone finishes my sentence as long as i know who they are like friends, family work colleagues etc, if they're wrong I can tell them. I get stuck every now and then and sometimes ha...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
2 points

Tell them right when you walk in that you suffer from a speech disorder. I've noticed people judge you less when you just break the ice about it....

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2021
3 points

I think most people are hitting the nail on the head: don't ask us, ask your friend. It's important for stutterers to work through a block, and not find a different word or let someone finish their s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2021
4 points

If he says he prefers "help" don't do it a lot bc it won't really help him share his ideas (that you value) and from personal experience, a lot of people don't guess my word correctly. Not a stupid q...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2021
4 points

Personally, I hate it, regardless of who does it. Most of the time when people finish my sentences, they don’t say what I was actually wanting to say, which frustrates me and makes me feel like I’m be...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2021
11 points

I would just ask him directly how he feels about that. It’s something that varies from person to person. Some people might appreciate the help if it’s genuine, others might find it condescending even ...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2021
5 points

personally I absolutely hate it when someone finishes my sentences it makes me feel like my input doesn't matter that I'm just an inconvenience and makes me more aware of my stutter which gives me an...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2021
35 points

Some people like when others finish their sentence, but ultimately it will not be the best for his development if he just stops talking, gives up, or has someone else finish his sentence. Even if he w...

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postr/StutterJan 4, 2021
30 points

I hope everyone here can say “fuck” to people who are impatient with you when talking ,while they know you have a condition

I hope everyone here can say “fuck” to people who are impatient with you when talking ,while they know you have a condition ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2020
1 points

Haven't you glanced over the title? I am *Expressing MY thoughts and opinions on stuttering.* What part of it is not satisfying and making you argue unnecessarily? For ME, stuttering is curable. It wo...

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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2020
1 points

I am very well aware of the rules, and I have nowhere mentioned the cure for stuttering. If I have, would you mind pointing it out for me?...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2020
2 points

You did the right thing OP. If anything, I would have demanded to see the manager and make them repeat exactly what they said. I’m a very kind person in general, but I absolutely will not stand someon...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2020
3 points

I run my own business and had a similar experience with a customer a few weeks back. I am having a relatively smooth day until on the way out she asked "I don't think I got your name." <sigh> ...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2020
4 points

I've had those moments, I tell people I may stutter when I talk. I don't stutter when I punch. Lol...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2020
3 points

Good for you man! Stand up for yourself! There have been so many instances that I look back on where I wish I did what you did....

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2020
3 points

Good story, thanks for sharing! In situations like this I would try to make her aware without causing myself the stress and excitement. Because I am no longer a young guy and need to watch my heart :...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2020
7 points

I’m a teacher and my principal accused me of “ad libbing” when I stutter and try to break my block. When she first made that comment, I felt so defeated, and wanted to tell her that I was not “ad libb...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2020
1 points

Don’t be worried!! I’ve had a hard time lately bc of the masks and people can’t always tell that you’re stuttering. If it’s that bad they flight attendants and TSA workers won’t mind if you carry a ca...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others