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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
2 points

I totally get it! I used to try and ready my contribution to the conversation, and then usually blurt it out, or block when I try to add it, and feel like I’ve ruined it all. Changing that allowed me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2020
1 points

Something I just started trying is to repeat to myself in my mind what they're saying to me in real time. Like, as they're talking, I'll think the words they're saying to kind of reinforce their messa...

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Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
3 points

I feel this on such a deep level. I'm no doctor and idk if there's a single right answer. In my experience, I find that overthinking speech tends to make it worse (I think most can agree). Anxiety f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
14 points

For me, excessive overthinking almost always leads to stuttering. I speak better when I don't prepare every word that I'm going to say. If I start talking right away and outpace my brain, I find that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2020
4 points

I think these are the real areas where a knowledgeable therapist can help. The only advice I can give is whatever you try to try and hem nervousness, do it in easier situations. You can't go into a sc...

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Mindfulness & BreathingSeeking TherapyPositive Therapy Techniques
postr/StutterJan 6, 2020
22 points

How to stop being nervous in conversation and be a better listener?

How to stop being nervous in conversation and be a better listener? During conversations,I can't help but feel overly anxious thinking about which words to speak next. This is really exhausting in the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
2 points

Have you experienced any brain trauma/concussions within the last few months? I wasn't born stuttering either - I suffered bad whiplash in a car accident when I was 7 yrs old and began stuttering a ...

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Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

Definitely. All that stuff we hold in our subconscious and it effects our daily lives. I'd also recommend a 10-20 minute meditation/breathing exercise every morning - does wonders for me. Good luck!...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
2 points

Ik this is said a lot but focus on your breathing it’s the most easiest way to help reduce stutter also try not to rush yourself while speaking (I do this a lot)...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
2 points

I really appreciate this. I tend to be super neurotic and it’s hard for me to be in the moment. Doing my best to remember to breathe is something I know I need to be more conscious of. Thanks!...

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Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
2 points

Times of stress really trigger stuttering for me. Deep rooted problems (emotionally and financially) and anxiety from overthinking really makes me stutter so much that I’d rather crawl into a ball awa...

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Stress & Fight/FlightMindset shiftMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
2 points

I empathize with you greatly. I'm in a dead end unfulfilling job. I have anxiety and depression and I feel like my stutter is the worst that it's been because of all of this. I remember when I had a g...

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Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsMindfulness & Breathing+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2020
1 points

Im microdosing lsd. 10ug every third day. I cant say it has affected my speech for sure because Im also on Paxil. But my speech is so much better. And since microdosing im much more mindfulness. I don...

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Mindfulness & BreathingPsychedelics & Microdosing
postr/StutterDec 28, 2019
93 points

For everyone who is FED up with stuttering, this is the ONLY post you'll need

For everyone who is FED up with stuttering, this is the ONLY post you'll need A little bit about myself. I'm currently 23 years old at the moment but my stammering isn't as bad as what it used to be 4...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2019
2 points

Meditation and enough sleep Man. Gotta reduce your anxiety and tension. I have a medium stutter I'd say but fluctuates a lot depending on my anxiety. Even if I don't think I'm particularly stressed ab...

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Stress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & BreathingEnergy & Biological Rhythms
postr/StutterDec 27, 2019
18 points

What helps me a lot

What helps me a lot Hi guys and girls. I wanted to share with you about what helps me to be more comfortable with my speech. Hard times help me. I mean, for me being a stutterer, hard times are almo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
5 points

Same here man :( but I'm practicing deep breathing exercise, I usually block at the start of a conversation so I try to mumble songs before I start my sentence, it helps in diverting my mind....

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Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2019
1 points

Good post, thanks for sharing. I'm in my mid 30s and still have a bit of a stutter. I haven't "kicked it" by any means, as it's still something I have to actively work on and I still have occasional...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingSituational Variability
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2019
7 points

Focus on letting some air out before you speak. Try your best to keep your airway open before and while you're speaking. You can start as slowly as needed but if you're fluent then that's all that mat...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2019
2 points

Wow I'm so sorry to hear that, yes it is very hard to lead a life with stuttering which fuels anxiety which further fuels stuttering and so on.... goddamit. But health problems coupled with stuttering...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationMindfulness & Breathing