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commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
16 points

Am 59m, i simultaneously wish a video (or audio) of my younger self (~9-20) exists and at the same time am so happy one doesn't! I know i had horrible stutter - but really don't recall specifics. I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesExperiential AssociationShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
1 points

Thank you very much for your deep explanation. Hindu, as a religion, sounds very moral( ethical). It seems that people are good for its own sake, not to gain a reward or avoid punishment (burning in h...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionFamily Support & ConflictAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
7 points

I've already seen some good pointers in the comments. My wife knows what triggers me and also knows that I can't control in at times no matter the situation, sad, angry, nervous, happy, etc. It just h...

Social & Relationships
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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
19 points

Accept your partner with the stutter. Give them the extra time needed to complete sentences. There will be times when they’ll face ridicule, mockery from others and it’ll break them. Be there, hear th...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & ConflictListener Reactions
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

So where I come from, they are not kind to people with disabilities or different in anyway. In low brow media there, stutters are a stock clown character. So yes, people will think I’m retarded or bei...

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Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

Hey I also used to live with flatmates in my first year at uni. They were mostly girls (I'm M) lol so a little bit different, at the time my stutter wasn't too bad. My advice would be to occasionally...

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
2 points

I don’t think is social anxiety either since you do communicate with each other in some way or form. Most people would just avoid it all together and stay quiet. I’m glad you have awesome flatmates. I...

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
2 points

We always talk a bit, ask how everyone’s classes and assignments are going. They are really nice and I feel lucky to have good flatmates. If none of us have time, we still smile or say hi, so it’s jus...

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Friendships & BelongingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

Maybe they also wanna be left alone but when they go into the kitchen you’re there, I doubt it’s on purpose unless they wanna be friends. You can try and get rid of it by talking with your roommates w...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
10 points

You need to spend a lot of time with a person who stutters to truly get them/understand them. My family are so used to my stutter that they get what I’m trying to say even if I butcher the hell out of...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
1 points

Sounds very sweet, and maybe you should take the chance. But honestly, I wouldn't wanna marry someone who has a stutter too, because the chances of our kids being born with a stutter is too damn high....

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Genetic & Family FactorsFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
1 points

I've found way to work around it but when I am with my family, I tend to slip up more. Probably because I work hard at hiding it and subconsciously, I don't feel pressured into hiding it as much aroun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
7 points

I like to let my son finish his own thoughts even if he is struggling to get it out. And I’ve really tried to teach our whole family this. Sometimes he stutters the most when he is trying to get thoug...

Parent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Home SupportFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
4 points

I think it makes perfect sense and it happens to me as well. It's well known that parents are their kids' biggest trigger, whether you feel it or not, your nervous system reacts to them being around. ...

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Experiential AssociationFamily Support & ConflictHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
1 points

Not only you! I stutter a lot when talking to my parents and siblings. There’s so much I want to discuss and so many good moments to share, but I struggle to express myself the way I want to. It feels...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
2 points

I stutter around my family. Especially my mother. Being honest I feel a little bit of fear around her. She has a histrionic and neurotic personality....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Experiential AssociationAnxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
6 points

My mother took it personally because I stuttered more around her than others. She’d get so upset. Made me not want to talk to her. One of my sons stutters, and I do my best not to react. I want to be ...

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Family Support & ConflictHome Support
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
1 points

Same, now as an adult, I still stutter a lot around my parents too. My mother explained it as me asking for her attention, telling me this story how this young boy would deliberately get into trouble ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
1 points

I stutter the most around my mother . Sometimes i am not able to say any sentence. I don't know why this happens only in front of my mother...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
1 points

I swear this is also the case when I talk to others, the stuttering is mild, and when I talk to my mother the stuttering is severe and I don’t know what the reason is lol...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Experiential AssociationFamily Support & Conflict