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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
1 points

Pretending to forget what you were gunna say unconsciously causes us shame. Tell your friends that sometimes you need to just stop and breath because you stutter. Our heart and mind were designed for ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
1 points

This ^ you are such a kind professor and they will appreciate your caring approach. For me personally, it helps me to stutter less if the person i am talking to looks me in the eye and doesn’t look aw...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
24 points

They pulled me into the office and told me someone said I was drinking on the job and that that's something they could fire me over. I let them know about my stutter and how I've literally had it sinc...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
1 points

Tell them you stutter, then it takes any confusion out of what happened! I highly recommend going back to the same group and asking if you can finish the sentence you were trying to say just for the s...

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Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
36 points

Oh my gosh, where the heck do you work?! This is ridiculous! The person who suggested to your manager that you’re drunk is an absolute idiot. Any person with half a brain would realize that you have a...

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
4 points

Just do your best to not judge your speech at this time. If you’re not judging your own speech, then it will go a long way in helping your fluency. You can speak, believe that. You’re making yourself ...

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
1 points

I shouldn’t have said force in the first place. It’s more sound manipulation i suppose and pronunciation of sounds more assertive is the word used in what I’ve seen but that’s also paired with a certa...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
1 points

Not true, it’s so not much forcing it out, it more pushing it out by doing things like making the first sound more aggressive, holding onto the start of a word to smooth it out. I know this because I’...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
2 points

Forcing out a block and actually being aggressive is actually a factor of speech therapy courses outside of the nhs, as the nhs teach softer, it doesn’t work mostly of course, lowering tone of voice s...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2021
19 points

Hi! Thanks for asking. The best thing you can do is ask them, in private, how they'd like to handle it. There may be specific things that trigger their stutter that you could work around or potenti...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool/Clinical Advocacy
postr/StutterNov 29, 2021
17 points

How should I approach interacting with a student who stutters?

How should I approach interacting with a student who stutters? I teach college and I have a student with a pronounced stutter. Sometimes I Will look something up rather than force him to, for example,...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterNov 23, 2021
128 points

Did it !

Did it ! Hi guys i want to keep u updated, i had that interview that i was frightened of yesterday , i did it guys, i told the interviewer that i stutterer and he seems understandable , he told me he ...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
postr/StutterNov 22, 2021
10 points

Should I tell my teacher about my stutter?

Should I tell my teacher about my stutter? Hi guys. So I have to give a presentation in front of my class in 2 weeks and I'm trying to decide whether I should tell my teacher about my stutter now just...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
3 points

You know, damn them. Speak whatever you want. Thank God the day of pulling a zipper on someone's mouth hasn't come yet. They must listen and if they don't, they can't shut your mouth (not all people l...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterNov 21, 2021
30 points

What are some things people do that irritate you when they know you stutter?

What are some things people do that irritate you when they know you stutter? Like Cutting you off, making fun of you, ignoring you etc. For me its when people get mad/annoyed at *YOU* because you're s...

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commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
1 points

Yeah, I agree with this. I don’t encourage disrespect to me, but I try to be understanding of people who may not be sensitive to my feelings at first....

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2021
3 points

It was in bad taste, but if this is the extent of the managers misdeeds, contacting HR is a pretty severe reaction. Over-reaction, if I'm being honest. Talk to the manager. Let them know you would ap...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2021
2 points

That’s a horrible comment to hear from someone. But I would caution you from believing that so many people think negatively about you. When we stutter we go into an anxious state of mind, which can le...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
1 points

I think all of us who stutter know this feeling, but is your decision if you let it bother you or not. Whenever I face an interview, I just try relax and try to take it slow, even then if my stutterin...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2021
1 points

just smile at them and don't interrupt what they say, but repeat things back at them sometimes! that always makes me feel like they're actually listening...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries