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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2026
3 points

I pretended to forget my best friend's name in conversation because I knew I blocked on the "D" sound in their name (ex: Denny) in a group setting (felt like a total asshole when my friends of 5 years...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2026
1 points

I use to feel that way too, but after a couple times, I got use to it and just kept it short and sweet. What helped me was using my name mid sentence, not at the start of the sentence. I’d always st...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2026
2 points

I'm almost done. I did mostly online :) Running from my problems every day, you could say. Or making my life easier, call it. I'd say it was well worth it. Look into WGU and online colleges if you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2026
7 points

To each their own. But for years I avoided ordering what I really wanted because the fear of saying "no pickles" was paralyzing for me. The kiosks really are a gamechanger. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterMar 10, 2026
19 points

I fw online food delivery apps and restaurants that have kiosks ❤️

I fw online food delivery apps and restaurants that have kiosks ❤️ They just a game changer, like on a good day im feeling it ill order my own food yk But sometimes it gets tough you just want to ea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2026
10 points

You can just smile and nod to stuff like that. They forget you within 20 seconds of you leaving no matter what you do....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 10, 2026
20 points

Great, a new stuttering block identified!!😍

Great, a new stuttering block identified!!😍 Sooo apparently I stutter on responding to workers when they tell me to have a good day when leaving stores??? I realized it 2 days ago when I was leaving ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterMar 9, 2026
7 points

Does anyone have interesting speech therapy stories?

Does anyone have interesting speech therapy stories? I'll start. Went to speech therapy from elementary school through middle school. Twice a week for 8 years and I feel like I don't have a whole lot ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & ProfessionalCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionUnhelpful Therapy TechniquesSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2026
1 points

The best technique i found is smiling. Somehow it reduces my anxiety and gives confidence. I also use hand gestures, and I tries to think ahead that what i want to say....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 9, 2026
22 points

New worrying reaction

New worrying reaction Stammering all my life, the usual story, dictated my life but hands mangaged to gain a bit of control over it over the last ten years. I'm now 50. Lately though, the last year o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2026
5 points

When I was forced to read a paragraph in school. I stuttered on every word. I didn’t/couldn’t finish, teacher asked someone else to read. I was seated against the wall, and looked toward it and just c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2026
7 points

I know there are many but I have blocked them out ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 9, 2026
3 points

Any help appreciated

Any help appreciated Hi, I am a 19-year-old male and a first-year university student. I've found that my fear of speaking and low self-confidence are quite pronounced. I've always had a slight stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2026
25 points

As a kid I had a really brutal stutter. I am 35 now and its mostly not detectable. I have trouble starting sentences with a vowel, like if a persons name is Olivia or Alex I have won't be able to get ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPersonal StoriesShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2026
-1 points

The problem with that for me has been that while I don't care if people like or respect me I can't stay in places where I'm openly disrespected/bullied for stuttering..and it has happened to me pretty...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2026
5 points

Focus on each word.. Fuel your sentences with a deep breath; before starting a sentence,just breathe. Mouth : wider Open Tongue: rests on the lower side.. And some covert technique helps me..(I sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterMar 8, 2026
4 points

I'm a 33F who has been stuttering and saying words backwards for years

I'm a 33F who has been stuttering and saying words backwards for years I'm a 33 year old female. I've been trying to overcome my social anxiety for several years. I stutter when I'm thinking about wha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2026
3 points

I used to do the same but now I just stutter and I don't care. If they look at me weird or there’s a misunderstanding I tell them I have a stutter. I had problems with some words in the past and now I...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2026
17 points

In my last job we and my coworkers were getting called by a woman offering a medical plan. I went and accepted the offer, she told me to go and tell another coworker to go to her because she needed to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 8, 2026
51 points

Lying because it’s easier to talk.

Lying because it’s easier to talk. I’m 22, I have a big stutter and sometimes I make shit up and lie about things, not because I like it but because some words are easier to say, or certain words will...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride