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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
2 points

Use it to your advantage. Mention it before your interview, mention it at the start of you have to (don't go on about it of course!). I tend to joke about mine saying you will get all the answers you ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
1 points

Hi, I recently got my job offer, even though I stammer during the interview (I told them initially). I am not saying recruiters are also supportive during interviews, but you have to apply anyways, an...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
7 points

Apply for jobs, don't be afraid. I am also a Comp Sci graduate (6 years ago). Interviewers will make accommodations for you, if you say you need them. If you can prove, you can write good code thats a...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2022
4 points

My friends are all chill about it. They obviously know I have it and accept it, they help me out when they can by helping me finish sentences. They never really had anything negative about it, it was ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2022
1 points

I think you are underestimating yourself and what you can do. I am a family nurse practitioner. I see patients in a clinic settings. I have had talk with patients and families about life, the future,...

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commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2022
4 points

I didn't have much time to answer earlier, so pardon my brevity. I wanted to encourage you to correct the situation sooner rather than later. You WILL BE HAPPIER when you stop letting your stutter di...

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commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2022
4 points

This! Call and see what they can do. Please don’t live with a constant and costly reminder of one bad day if you can help it. The folks at the office obviously understand the importance of having work...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2022
3 points

Sorry I neglected the 'who made fun of my stuttering' part and I misinterpreted your question as 'giving stuttering to someone else who is innocent'. I choose 'Yes', instead of 'No'...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2022
1 points

How do you know when you have confidence in your stutter? From what i read its putting yourself in situations where you're going to stutter, I work in retail as a cashier so would that count? Cause I...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2022
3 points

i personally just find it less stressful if im up front about it. for example, when my bf and i first started dated i let them know before our first date that i had a stutter and luckily they were ver...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2022
3 points

I just stutter a few times on purpose, then say, “1 second, I need to stop to breath because I stutter sometimes.” Then I go on to tell them that it happens sometimes, and to not feel any pressure to ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2022
4 points

You are not saying it for the benefit of the listener. Most stuttering happens because your body is frantically trying to *avoid stuttering*. It’s like those “Chinese finger traps” (if there’s a be...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
5 points

For me, once I've stuttered in a conversation and they ask me about it, most of them are very understanding and even supportive of it. There are some douchebags out there that just outright bully you ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
3 points

Yes, it’s a difficult program. It requires an increasing amount of courage and commitment! Especially the first few months and sets of contacts. But I have been seeing the results. Not only in my spee...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
2 points

No problem, happy to share! Don’t get too discouraged about the job hunt. I won’t tell you what to do, but I know many people find it helpful to be upfront right away about a tendency to stutter, es...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
2 points

I got it sorted in work today as I stood up for myself! Which I’m happy about as I don’t like to hold grudges 😃.. however your son will be alright. I’ve just learned that not everyone will be as kind...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
2 points

That’s so Awful hope your okay now😫 and thank you I got it sorted today I feel a lot better about it because I had the courage to actually speak up and say it’s not alright. 🙌🏻 hopefully now I can ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
1 points

hey! try to see it as a buffer to not be friends with people who don’t respect you and your stutter. also good luck! truly....

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2022
2 points

Thanks so much! I’m going to talk to him today as I still feel a little down over what happened...

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2022
2 points

Reminding him that you have a disability will put him in his place. Being the bigger person by genuinely and honestly explaining, will make him feel guilty, and that's a lot better than cursing him ou...

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