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postr/StutterMay 31, 2025
1 points

I almost gave up because of my stutter… but now I’m proud of my voice.

I almost gave up because of my stutter… but now I’m proud of my voice. I never imagined that something as simple as saying my name could feel like climbing a mountain. Years ago, I confessed my feeli...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterMay 31, 2025
18 points

I'm so tired and just want to rest peacefully

I'm so tired and just want to rest peacefully 19M, have severe speech blocks, talked very less in school and avoivded all social gatherings, had no friends, in college, never gave a presentation, dont...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2025
4 points

It used to scare me how easily it seemed to randomly appear but I realized that wasn't true. After the stutter I could likely say it again with ease unless the situation hasn't subsided for instance....

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2025
5 points

**TL;DR short summary**: Your brain wants to assume the worst, imagine the worst. During a sale for clients, sometimes it feels nearly impossible and it's like I'm skipping past it. **Intervention**: ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2025
3 points

>You said: *"Surprising how the word "stress" triggers it even when I don't stutter on it. I feel the trigger that I might and I think more than half the time I still do but interestingly enough, ther...

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Anticipating StutteringCycles & RandomnessAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 30, 2025
17 points

I've never stuttered so little and never cared so little

I've never stuttered so little and never cared so little Just swung over to reddit and of course this sub reminded me of my stutter. Honestly...I nearly forgot. I do stutter and I remember a funny m...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2025
1 points

Can I ask you a question? How severe was your stutter? I have always had a mild/mild stutter and somehow managed to talk my way out of it and use certain avoidance techniques. Since 2020 (lockdown), ...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2025
5 points

i felt every word in this post like i was the one typing it. 32M here, been battling with stuttering for 26 years now. i’ve also reached that “fake fluency” stage, but honestly? it just makes you soun...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
0 points

I tried everything! My last name was Huddleston. I went to court and was granted a name change. I chose two words that I would never stutter on! That is the only thing I found that helped througho...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
2 points

Great post! My general advice would be instead of avoiding trigger words, that you pointed out. Try to mindfully accepting/allowing the thoughts/emotions of trigger-words i.e., acknowledge them. After...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
3 points

Great post! **TL;DR summary**: *(of the post)* I am a girl, late 20s. I have always been ashamed but I am tired of feeling inadequate. 3rd grade: I had a project to present to the class, my heart wa...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
3 points

Early 50s here, have spent decades trying to overcome this, it's been a hard road. I'm making progress but it's turtle speed slow. You're right, they look at us weirdly, astonished that something as ...

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postr/StutterMay 29, 2025
8 points

Spelling Out

Spelling Out Hello everyone, I was wondering if you guys have a harder time with spelling out ur name rather then saying it. I was signing up for membership at a retail store and I struggled so much t...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
2 points

Many women don't mind, including my own partner. When we met, she saw it as normal. That said, try to work on reducing the stutter so it doesn't impede your speaking too much. I really loved the boo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
2 points

Sing… Sing your ass off!! And learn to dance and cook and fix stuff too. Make your stutter the least impressive thing about yourself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
10 points

I legitimately thought you wanted a girlfriend who stammers. I was like that's a kink I've never heard of before. Good luck bro. Just be nice and polite to women. Having a stutter can help you become ...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
3 points

I'm so confused by this comment as I have a stutter and I'm gluten free...

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
2 points

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. That’s a fascinating psychosomatic link you’re struggling with. It sounds very debilitating so I have a lot of empathy for what you must be going through. I like the i...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
3 points

i imagine it might be bit difficult for a 10 yo to stutter voluntarily, esp among kids of the same age group. But I'm sure the therapist knows what they're doing. I've never worked with kids, and only...

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postr/StutterMay 29, 2025
4 points

feeling conflicted

feeling conflicted Hi all, I’m new to using reddit. I browse different categories every now and then but never posted, so bear with me. This is actually very hard for me as I have never openly talked ...

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