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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
3 points

Personally I've noticed that because I work around my blocks I tend to think ahead and I usually already know what the other person is going to say after only a few words and I have my response alread...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
2 points

40-something here. Just a couple of tips: Try to 'stammer forward' - don't repeat sounds, and always be trying to move on to the next sound whenever possible. Maintain eye contact (not in an 'establ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
2 points

and that's the thing, i LOVE to talk to people and socialize. i'm a social guy with people i feel very comfortable with, it's just in situations where i'm nervous i choke. i really appreciate your res...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
2 points

I've struggled with stuttering my whole life as well my friend. it sucks, but what helps me is to remember to breathe and fact is, all we have is time. people are often in a rush, and it translates ov...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2017
1 points

That is a really good analogy. But pushing out those last reps feels satisfying, and you can stop. Pushing out those last sounds makes you dread having to push out more sounds that your inevitably goi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2017
1 points

Thanks a lot for that. I go back to school tomorrow after the Christmas break and our class is going to be doing a public speaking class for the rest of the year. As soon as I heard about this in Sept...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2017
1 points

They work but you have to do them on a daily basis. My speech gets better when I am making a concerted effort not to avoid speaking situations. It is hard for me to keep up in the long term, but I hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2017
1 points

Hi, Ftus. Sorry to hear about your troubles. I know the feelings all too well. When I was your age, I had very similar thoughts of "when will this just go away?". I waited, waited and waited, and ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapyAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2017
3 points

Hi /u/Ftus. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm 26 and I stuttered from an early age, around 4, I guess. I still do. I hated to read aloud in front of my class and give a presentation to a large...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2017
2 points

Hey, stuttering sucks. I had an incredibly supportive mom and dad and it still sucked every day, so I can't imagine how hard it must be for you. Have you tried talking to your dad about how it makes y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2017
2 points

Hello /u/ftus I'm 34 and I have no memory of ever speaking fluently prior to extensive therapy, I still stutter but I have more control over it. Where do you live? Can your school provide any speech t...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Seeking TherapyAvoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2017
2 points

I know that this will sound very cliche but you need to have confidence in yourself and try not to let your life be taken over by the stutter. I'm also 14 and I've found that just taking my mind off o...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2017
2 points

Same. When I bought my phone, the salesmen started up the process of that new version of Siri where they get to know your name and voice, and he did it without asking. Lol I just froze up and told him...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2017
1 points

I've actually thought about learning sign language so that if I'm ever put in a really bad situation. I find people will respect and won't push you with that sort of disability as opposed to a stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2017
2 points

I hear you on the small talk. I feel a repulsion to it, it's weird. I know that's not a good trait to possess....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
1 points

Sorry for the late comment, but I completely relate to this. I had a horrible stutter as a child, and I didn't exactly have the best teachers or classmates to help me with it. It kind of locked me out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
2 points

That'd be me. I love hanging out with friends and meeting new people. I guess I just forced myself to do it. If I couldn't get a word right, I wouldn't let that get me down - I just use a synonym and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
4 points

That's exactly what I do. I use the impediment against itself. The more I do it, the more I force myself to be social. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
5 points

Back in college, my MBTI was INFJ. After working for a few years, in which my first job involved talking to clients, my MBTI changed. Right now it is 50-50 introvert and extrovert. I could say that th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2016
2 points

My parents got me one too for a gift, but whenever I want Alexa to play a song I get stuck on the "play" and the timer runs out, forcing me to do it repeatedly until I finally get through it :( ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages