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commentr/StutterApr 18, 2021
1 points

I’m a black man too. People go through different things and knowing that there’s someone like you who’s going through something similar can put you at ease. I’m also gay, so to see a stutterer is nice...

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commentr/StutterApr 18, 2021
1 points

It certainly is what it is. And certainly people will reject us because of our stutter. But I found religious groups, charitable groups, and night classes great places to make friends. If you have ...

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commentr/StutterApr 17, 2021
1 points

In high school they had the in crowd and the out crowd. I was in the out out out crowd because of my speech. No friends no nothing. But guess what? I eventually made friends Good friends. If peop...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2021
2 points

Yes yes yes. Happens to me a lot! I feel you.. However, if your friends really care and love you, they wouldn’t give a shit if you took an hour to share a story. Let me tell you something.. Lately my...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2021
1 points

I agree it's hard to tackle but my daily practice helps me to realise that I'm completely normal and the stutter is part of who I am Share your story whether you stutter or not Join Facebook support...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2021
10 points

This really is me. When I try to tell stories, it never works out. I imagine it as being beautifully explained, with well timed humour and voice inflections to convey dramaticism or whatever. Bu...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2021
1 points

For me it mainly depends on if I’m having a good or bad stutter day. I do feel like stories are a big part of friendships, but it’s also about having a genuine connection. When someone is friends with...

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postr/StutterApr 16, 2021
15 points

Not being able to share stories

Not being able to share stories After I got left out *yet again* by a group of people I hoped to be friends with, I sat down and thought. Stutter aside, what about me makes me unable to connect with o...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2021
1 points

Hey mate! I feel you, and I know how hard it is.. but sometimes it has everything to do with how we see ourselves, and not how others sees us. As a stutter, I always think that people avoid me or lea...

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2021
2 points

I have friends in real life and online. Find friends who accept you for who you are. Those are the people that deserve to be in your life....

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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2021
8 points

Your doing a lot of mind reading. Do you really know how people feel about you? I think you'd be surprised. As you get older, friends come and go, and you find yourself in a small circle of family and...

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postr/StutterApr 15, 2021
16 points

Does anyone else find it difficult to make friends?

Does anyone else find it difficult to make friends? People just don’t see me as worth their friendship. No matter how nice and funny I am, how I try to relate with them, in the end I’m ignored/the las...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
2 points

It’s helped so much that my best friend and his father stutter too. Having people like you is vital...

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
3 points

Agreed. I too haven't met a stutterer in real life but have met great people online in which have become great friends....

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2021
2 points

No problem, and if it makes you feel any better..from 18-20 my stutter was the worse, mostly from how socially anxious I was. During that time I had so many people tell me that my anxiety will get bet...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2021
3 points

The only way to gain confidence is to meet and talk to strangers daily. Do this for 21 days, you will feel change in your confidence...

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commentr/StutterApr 6, 2021
3 points

Literally every person I’m close with know I stutter; coworkers, classmates, teachers, strangers(if they ask). Once they realize that’s why you cannot speak fluently, they won’t gang harass you into e...

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commentr/StutterApr 6, 2021
2 points

Hi! It's okay to take time for yourself and speak lesser or not speak for a while (I did that too) but remember that one day you will have to speak again and it will be difficult, I noticed after not ...

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postr/StutterApr 5, 2021
4 points

Xbox friends

Xbox friends I’m just reaching out. I have a hard time talking to people online because some people are just ruthless and don’t care for an explanation about stuttering. If anyone wants to play Xbox...

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postr/StutterApr 4, 2021
5 points

Does anyone genuinely know how to meet people/form actual friendships at college during COVID?

Does anyone genuinely know how to meet people/form actual friendships at college during COVID? I know it's already hard to meet people during COVID for the average person but I feel it's even harder f...

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