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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2017
5 points

My advice is to start reading out loud every day to build up confidence. You might have to settle for something like a janitorial or fast food job until you get more confident. You might also start lo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterApr 19, 2017
10 points

I just turned 17 and I still don't have a job because I am anxious of my stutter

I just turned 17 and I still don't have a job because I am anxious of my stutter Most of my friends got jobs when they turned 16 while I couldn't even bring myself to apply for job due to embarrassmen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 18, 2017
18 points

have passed on Stutter

have passed on Stutter Hi All, I've passed on stuttering to my son (3yr old). About 4 days ago he repeated a word in a sentence 3 times in a row ("I like like like that book"), to which we thought th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsCycles & Randomness+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2017
1 points

Great job! I have such a hard time there, too. I'm glad it's kind of loud in there, but I cringe if they ask me to repeat myself. Out of the gate to "burrito bowl" sounds like "buh, burr, burrito, bur...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2017
2 points

I think my stutter is considered mild and I think small doses of Xanax help me to be more fluent. I will take a .25 mg Xanax maybe twice a week. I don't have a set routine, I just wait till I start ha...

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commentr/StutterApr 16, 2017
1 points

The only real thing that has helped me and had a lasting impact is when I made myself say exactly what I wanted to say, no word substitutions. If I stutter, so be it, I acknowledge it and move on with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2017
2 points

Yeah it really sucks, having to put extra effort to do what normal people take for granted. It's like a race where we start several kilometers behind the others but are expected to catch up to everyon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2017
2 points

I am uncomfortable talking about my stutter to anyone .. aside from my family. I don't think anyone at my work knows I have a stutter since I am fairly quiet, but even when I do talk I tend to use wor...

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postr/StutterApr 15, 2017
7 points

Does Xanax help

Does Xanax help I've noticed that I stutter when I'm excited, nervous or irate. Has anyone tried Xanax as a calming mechanism and did it work? Thanks...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterApr 15, 2017
4 points

true, i'm trying to stop myself apologising for when i stutter. it's a work-in-progress, but it still slips out sometimes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterApr 14, 2017
10 points

Why do so many people think I'm "faking" my stutter online?

Why do so many people think I'm "faking" my stutter online? I have a pretty bad stutter as it is. I get stuck on syllables, I go "uh, um, like" when I'm talking, and my face gets pretty mangled as I'm...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 14, 2017
16 points

frustration

frustration possibly the worst part of stuttering for me is not being able to defend myself. so i'm staying at my grandparents over easter, i messaged my sibling group chat on whatsapp saying my gran...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2017
1 points

Anyone interested can email me at Chris@aberrantcreative.com. I will then be able to tell you more, as I can't reveal too much on this public forum. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2017
2 points

You ordered your food in person at a restaurant. You should be proud of yourself for not just ordering online and taking the easy way out. I get it, there are way too many bad days for PWS to handle. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2017
2 points

Don't know what your culture is like at work but my place has been really accommodating with making sure I'm comfortable at meetings and get a proper hearing. Raise it to your manager and if they're w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2017
3 points

Same as anyone, really. There's nothing serious that separates a stutterer from anyone else. Stuttering has always been a far bigger deal to me than to other people in my life. I also thought I could...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2017
2 points

Hey, another PWS who struggles with 'S' here! I can't even say 's' correctly when I'm not stuttering, it always comes out as 'ts'. Back to the main point, I know how ordering food can quickly turn in...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2017
4 points

Good for you! I have issues saying my name when introductions happen in a meeting, and I know it's 100% mental. Before my turn, my heart starts racing, etc. The only way I'm "safe" is if there's no...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterApr 12, 2017
25 points

I ordered at Chipotle today (NOT ONLINE)

I ordered at Chipotle today (NOT ONLINE) Normally, I order Chipotle online to avoid any stuttering that may or may not happen. Today, I walked in to the store and saw a lot of people in line... I le...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2017
2 points

I can't say it either so I end up saying it as Pacific. Most people understand I mean and then you get smartasses who say "Pacific? Like the ocean". ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution