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commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
3 points

Personally one of my biggest regrets was apologizing for stuttering around this girl I was hanging out with a bit and really into. Apologizing for who I am made me feel inferior and probably wasn’t a ...

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postr/StutterNov 17, 2022
13 points

The best little tip that helps me personally the most.

The best little tip that helps me personally the most. I don’t know if someone has already mentioned this but I came up with it recently. If you apologise and say “I’m sorry” or explain you have a s...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
1 points

I have an additional theory about those terrible tempers. Angry taking uses a physical force that maybe overrides the diaphragm/vocal chord tension. I also believe that this tension comes directly f...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
3 points

Everyone is different! I tell my class day 1 I have a stammer to be open about it. Some people come up and say they have one too and appreciate the openness. Surely there are people who havent said an...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

I talk about it often. With people on the phone when I’m having a hard day, when I interview, def before I give presentations. I used to try to hide it and then just got to a point where I realized I ...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

I don't see it as necessarily apologising personally. I see it as confidently acknowledging the stammer, and doing what's needed to make the conversation continue. It's just works for me, it's far b...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
5 points

Address it with the person that you're speaking to. In the moment and on the spot. What should you say in the moment? That'll be situationally dependent. But speak your mind. "Is my stutter making y...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
7 points

They don't but if you bring it up right then and there it'll make them feel super bad . I never stutter when saying "I have a disability jackass"...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
1 points

Yup. I feel like if you do any of those things that have been suggested it would work, just be sure to let them know you are looking at them and thanking (or whatever) THEM. Most people know the sign ...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
27 points

My go to line is 'wow making fun of a speech impediment.. real classy' . Works better if it's with people who you know...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
2 points

I have some advice for you. Its not the best of advice in some peoples eyes.. I stutter too and I had to take matters into my own hands. Who ever picks on a person with a speech impediment is the ...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
1 points

If physical assault was legal in the US without getting arrested, you should have punched his lights out!! If anyone laughs or makes fun of a stuttering person, they should have the tar kicked out of...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
1 points

That’s awesome that you responded and good that he apologized. My son pretends he doesn’t hear that kind of stuff and I think it’s GREAT that you instantly defended yourself- unfortunately this stuff ...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
13 points

Give them a thumbs up or nod. Or you can just sign thank you and they may think you’re deaf but they’ll get your message...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
4 points

Whenever this happens I say things like "What, you never met someone with brain trauma caused by a drunk driver before??" Or (because I'm old enough) "Yeah they never were able to get all the shrapn...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
5 points

Who the hell would react by laughing and saying “what the hell?” when they see someone struggling to speak? I agree that they almost definitely didn’t have hurtful intentions. However, that shouldn’t ...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
2 points

What a piece of shit, honestly. Wether you have a stutter or not, what would compel a person to make this sort of comment? Good on you for standing up for yourself. I'm sorry for what happened, that...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
9 points

You gave the perfect response. You can’t control other people’s actions, only your own reactions. You clearly were the bigger person there…...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
30 points

I know that hurt, but you gotta understand that it was propbably not ment to be hurtful in the way you might think. Maybe he thought your tounge curled up of something, which would be harmless to joke...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
2 points

Jeez man I’m so sorry. That sucks. This is a perfect example of a time when I would usually turn around to the person mocking me and say, “I have a stutter. It’s a disability. Are you laughing at me?...

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