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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
7 points

I think everyone is cognizant of the fact that having a stutter makes dating harder. But also if someone doesn’t want to date you cus you have a stutter, that’s a person you shouldn’t have wanted to ...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
3 points

I used to think the same. I was ugly, stutterin and very insecure. I tried to just looksmaxx to at least improve my appearance despite not being good looking, at least I tried. I also notice that my s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2025
2 points

I have saved my ass several times from saying something stupid or embarassing infront of peoples due to my stuttering I can change at last moment realising my mistake or reading face of people ...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2025
2 points

I do my best when I feel like I’m trying to make a point, the small talk is what fucks me up...

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postr/Stutter_remissionOct 5, 2025
2 points

My stutter strategy (exactly how non-stutterers speak)

My stutter strategy (exactly how non-stutterers speak) I’m not sure if you’ve tried this before, but here’s a simple observation: if we do nothing, nothing happens — no movement, no sound. Humans must...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2025
1 points

I was so nervous, i barely prepared, we did a mock presentation as a group twice before the real one and i stuttered like crazy for the mock presentation. On the real one i tried my best but i still c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
1 points

Yes, and to an extent I still believe this is true. I don’t have time to yap abt it rn but if you have any questions for me let me know...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
3 points

What I'm stuttering I sometimes have a couple seconds to think about what I'm going to say and change it if needed....

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
1 points

I don’t think stammer can be cured automatically. U have to make some effort and I think if you can’t see people, stuttering will be much better...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
2 points

It makes me a better reader and speller if I didn’t stutter I would win every spelling bee If you say something wrong you can change your sentence to make it better and no one will know I know it’s ...

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postr/Stutter_remissionOct 4, 2025
2 points

Sometimes we stutter less when it’s our choice to talk - versus when we're asked a question with very little room for us to wiggle around words we stutter more. Why?

Sometimes we stutter less when it’s our choice to talk - versus when we're asked a question with very little room for us to wiggle around words we stutter more. Why? My reply: I think it's a classic ...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
2 points

I'm inclined to believe that language has a massive role for some people who stutter including me. English isn't my first language but I'm more fluent in English rather in my mother language. And like...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
7 points

I also stutter but that is not the end of life. We are poor only in verbal communication. That also solves a problem as we dont have to think about and it and career choices where it is used extensive...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
1 points

Nope, German! We have to learn English and French in school. English was by far easier. I'm able to understand almost everything in French but I cannot for the life of me speak any sentences....

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
7 points

I probably wouldn’t have built my physique the way I did. Being in shape was my saving grace in dating because having muscle attracted women far more than my conversation skills lol. I was always acti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
11 points

I grind off my others skills to compensate my stuttering...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
19 points

Whenever I did timed speeches in school, I didn’t have to write as much as everyone else. I may or may not have exaggerated it a little to fill up the time slot....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
2 points

at restaurants I usually point the finger to the menu and try to say it slowly "hmmm I want this..."...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
1 points

1. Good. Gym and maturing (life experience and constant learning) 2. No. self therapy has though. you just observe and understand your stutter. experiment with everything until you settle o...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2025
7 points

I'm quite like this, never seem to shut up but certain times I'm just really quiet and struggle with getting my feelings/points across, even with family and friends....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation