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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

Yeah, I think with enough experimentation the different words can become a style. A slightly eccentric style but it still works and gets the words out. I think having a stutter has even improved my cu...

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postr/StutterOct 8, 2025
4 points

Just sharing my experience with people like me

Just sharing my experience with people like me I'm new to this community - Stutter, at the same time I'm an active Reddit user from India. Male 37 yrs here. I work in the customer service sector. I ha...

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postr/Stutter_remissionOct 8, 2025
1 points

When I'm not stuttering my brain kicks in thinking why I'm not stuttering. Why is that?

When I'm not stuttering my brain kicks in thinking why I'm not stuttering. Why is that? I think that - such a mindset basically lead us in a hypnosis/trance: alluding to the idea of stuttering “alway...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
3 points

I have felt that way my whole life, although usually my trade was something smaller, like a finger or even a hand. I had never used Reddit before, but finding this at least reminds me that I am not al...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

thanks for the encouragrment. any social situations are a challenge for me. you have to just put yourself out there and try not to avoid situations...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
2 points

I feel this way too sometimes... I mean I have a phone call I need to make.. I'm here thinking about the best words I can use so I don't block for too long. Just placing a freaking phone call has bec...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
2 points

Me as a stutterer is inclined to believe that woman or girlfriend merit someone who speaks fluently not like me or you always thinking about their speech have blockings and always sad and depressed......

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

Sorry to hear that kinda person, but this post is sorta insensitive. Not everybody is going to react or is able to react the same way as you, and that’s perfectly ok. Me personally, the people who v...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
5 points

Telling HR staff about your stutter is the absolutely best thing we can do. And it helps the interviewer, too. I used to hire staff and it's really difficult to get candidates to be calm enough to an...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

Even when I know exactly what I want to say in my second language, I stutter more. When speaking my native language, I am able to rephrase things, modify the rhythm etc. a lot more easily. This is s...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

Even when I know exactly what I want to say in my second language, I stutter more. When speaking my native language, I am able to rephrase things, modify the rhythm etc. a lot more easily. This is s...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
2 points

I would trade a leg + an eye + 5 Inches of my height and i would still consider this a fair deal. Speaking fluently just opens up so much more opportunities, it is unbelievable. The amount of wasted c...

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postr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

Stuttering more on Second Language

Stuttering more on Second Language hi everyone, as titled, my stuttering seems to be more when i speak in English (during standup and interviews) . not just that there is also physical signs like swea...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

Brother, i do stutter n stutter very badly, yes these days young girls prefer boys who are talkative, who make them laugh, do stuff for them, which is quite a bit hard for stutters like us. But you d...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
3 points

Corporate lawyer- real estate - contracts mostly. NYC and LA. Avoided face to face negotiations for the most part and never tried to get clients. Good technical writer, loved writing and reading th...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

Never known anyone else to "switch words" like I do 😅  Years ago I used to have trouble pronouncing words starting with K, like car, so I'd say "a whole car", as the string of words starting with A l...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
7 points

Yeah I hate it too. I usually say “no, I just stutter” and that comes out quicker than my actual name 😂 I love the look on ppls faces too...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

It's an option yes. not looking. you don't have to make eye contact. there was an interview 2 years ago where [John Hendrickson talks about his stutter](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xilS9aKha10). ...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

Stare at their nose or at the space between the eyebrows. They'll think you're looking at their eyes. Don't go too cross-eyed though!...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

I relate with this. I try staring over them like the side of their shoulder to help focus my brain to talk fluent to an extent. They’re still in my eye view but when they make disrespectful faces or c...

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