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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2024
3 points

Yes i know,it can be more frustrating than stutter itself,but try to overcome these thoughts,by caring less,exposing to more social situations and try to get a job which involves less communication.i ...

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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2024
4 points

i think your colleague is a bitch, you may go to the teacher and explain what happened, be more firm next time you can do it...

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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2024
4 points

Bro you aint annoying anyone with stutter bro remember that,if they cant accept your stuttering issue then kick them out of your life,they are not the person who is paying your bills remember that,Btw...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
1 points

Its your life not theirs. Perhaps you can tell them to leave you alone if they wish to continue to be your friend? Idk, it was a year ago though, how have things gone down with you and your friend?...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
1 points

I stutter on my first AND last name. I don’t care. Take up peoples time, make them wait for you to speak....

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
4 points

I think stuttering publicly will ironically make you seem more confident. I'm almost 21 with a pretty severe stutter and I heard this remark many times from different people. Of course it takes a lot ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
3 points

Try to structure your life so that stuttering is one of the least things you care about. And yes, stop lying to gf and tell her the truth as soon as possible....

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2024
2 points

that’s a good point ngl, and to set it straight I don’t just blurt it out, it usually comes up when I’m have a conversation with someone about their difficulties with it, and this might be cliche but ...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2024
4 points

I wish there was a waiting time protocol that anyone with speech difficulty for any reason can share. For example, I can carry a card that says "please wait for about **10 seconds** before assuming I'...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2024
1 points

Thx. Letting my friend or family do communications when I can't, could make me stutter more? Because when I am in not very "welcoming environment", I usually ask to someone to save me when I can't say...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
5 points

Tbh I would've said thank you for the help and then say the sentence myself. But ultimately it all really comes to that particular person' personality I guess....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
18 points

IDK about this at all bar. It’s a social setting and it’s a great ice breaker. Hey man I heard you stuttering when ordering the drink, I have a friend who stutters and was wondering, what’s the prot...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
3 points

I suppose it's marginally better than an explicitly negative interaction. But I'll never not correct somebody in this scenario. They gotta stop being foolish....

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2024
3 points

Whenever I meet someone new I stutter quite a bit. As I get to know them, my stutter lessens with them. For things like interviews or important meetings with people I've never met, I'll often let th...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2024
3 points

I get it but why is it embarrassing to write if you were clearly blocking and the dude just wanted to help? If you're not ashamed of the stutter you should stfu, look him in the eyes, take the paper a...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
8 points

I’m sorry you had to go through this! I get the feeling of pressured to say something and having others seem to not care or act in a way that makes you feel less than! You aren’t alone and it’s okay t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
9 points

I think it’s one being able to take control so if they asked for help instead, the feeling that someone is pressuring you, and if they were ‘helping’ or inpatient. For me that helps me feel better, in...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
3 points

I don’t know how much this will help but I’m also 19 and my bf, 20, has a stutter the way he said I made him comfortable is when we first met he allowed me to ask questions, before him I never met som...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
4 points

Yea from what you've described they're definitely avoiding you for some reason. Co-worker A seems to be toxic. Or He may also be austic or just very socially awkward. And yea maybe consider going to H...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
5 points

Most people don't understand what's going on, so they're weird about it and might accidentally come off as rude (but they're actually just ignorant). Usually that comes in the form of awkward laughter...

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