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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
5 points

I’ve been through the same. My stutter was at its worst when I tried to hide it. I didn’t want people to know so sometimes I avoided speaking and became really shy or I was overthinking all the time a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

Ok so I ask, were you treated negatively because you did something bad or were some of those people just rude Think of it like this. You're not nervous to talk to a girl because she might make fun of...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

If you saw them doing that to anyone else would you want to be friends with them or date them? I ask because I really think the main thing that makes it hard about having a stutter is believing that...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterMar 16, 2026
18 points

How do I stutters find relationships, especially as men?

How do I stutters find relationships, especially as men? I am 21M and because of my starter, I have never asked out a girl ever. There’s been girls that I’ve been friends with or they’ve been a friend...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
3 points

Pet peeve of mine is it being called a "stuttering problem". Not really a huge deal. That's exactly what we have, but I always felt like I hated it being called this. I've always felt the better ter...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
4 points

Can you walk normally? Think what people who can not walk think of people who can normally walk, we also take for granted alot of things, but ye stuttering sucks lol...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
0 points

I assume you’re a girl who stutters then? That’s a completely different experience. Guys approach you and generally there is less dating stigma associated with girls who have speech impediments!...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
5 points

I wonder this so much too. They can just talk to people, call someone or anything... as if it's the most normal thing in the world... I just wanna know how that feels ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
1 points

As a personn who don't stutter, after listening to the recording I wouldn’t have known that you do. You’re doing great !...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
2 points

There’s a lot I can say about this, but it ultimately boiled down to a major mindset shift. I stopped looking at my speech as a problem to get over. I know it’s counterintuitive, but seeing your speec...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
10 points

Yup, think about this all the time, nobody understands unless they experience it. It’s like manual labour, not automatic. Normal people speak as if they’re just simply breathing....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
1 points

You sound really good! I think that I'm biased cuz I have a stutter on my own, so it's easier for me to spot, but I could assume that maybe a person without it wouldn't even connect the dots....

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Identity & Self-PerceptionTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
1 points

Is it that we’re not given the opportunity or that we don’t always take the opportunity? For me the main thing that has held me back is the mindset, not the actual stutter itself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
9 points

Yes and no really. Technically we can, but we are not always given the opportunity. And also, even tho in the end I will say everything I want to say, I hate that I know my brain is working faster th...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Access & RightsOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
1 points

Thanks for this, yea more or less I sound the same as my recording although I may stutter a bit more when talking in person. ...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
2 points

It would be like being released from death row by DNA evidence and given a huge payout for all the stolen years spent behind bars....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
15 points

Totally agree on this one,i wish I could talk without blockages ,not having to use different words instead of the one i wanted or even rephrasing the whole sentence and to sound like an elementary sch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
42 points

I think ab this atleast once a day, its such a gift. I hate how im forced to be quiet i have so much things to say...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 15, 2026
92 points

It’s actually crazy to me that people can say what they want to say

It’s actually crazy to me that people can say what they want to say I feel like everyone around me takes the ability to be fluent when speaking for granted soooooo hard. I don’t talk loads, but it’s n...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
2 points

Whichever language I use more, the stuttering seems to be less. I spoke English most of my childhood but now I live in Mongolia. My stuttering was worse when I started to speak Mongolian daily, but it...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution