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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

Well, I really appreciate your advice and I see what you’re saying. I am gonna try next time I have those sorts of feelings towards a girl to actually ask her out. I’m tired of not living because I’m...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & RomanceQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
5 points

As a woman, I can’t know exactly what it’s like for men to find romantic partners. But I’m also a lesbian and have been in some good, healthy relationships with women, in addition to some fun flings i...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
2 points

In my experience, I grew up with my family pushing me towards speaking on the theory I could somehow overcome stuttering. While this probably made me more comfortable speaking in some ways, in my 40s...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftQuality of LifeSituational Variability
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
4 points

Can you walk normally? Think what people who can not walk think of people who can normally walk, we also take for granted alot of things, but ye stuttering sucks lol...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

You just said you don’t have a car or a full time job? I’m sorry but that didn’t sound like you getting yourself “up” I’m just speaking from experience & from the majority of situations. ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
0 points

What do you want? You've already been told some women find your stutter cute and are open to going on a date. You have friends who are happy to set you up on a date. You know that most women don't ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
1 points

just pick the one that interests you the most. If you let your speech hold you back and control your decisions, you'll regret it down the track...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
42 points

I think ab this atleast once a day, its such a gift. I hate how im forced to be quiet i have so much things to say...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
5 points

I had some years where I basically didn't stutter that much. Those years were the best times of my life. I answered phones without hesitation, participated in events where I didn't know a single perso...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2026
1 points

Briefly, I'm middle-aged and having a stutter has already made me who I am & I have allowed it to control every aspect of my life. Since I cannot undo everything, it is too late for me....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
3 points

You may be over exaggerating stuttering, sure it may ruin most of your life mentally and emotionally but it's not life threatening, there's alot of things that make life miserable and stuttering does ...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
2 points

My life wouldn’t change. I do what I want. I have the career I’ve always wanted. I date. I’ve got friends. I’m close with my family. Like not stuttering tomorrow would do very little for me. It would ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
3 points

I wouldn’t change instantly but I could already see myself talking everywhere I go and that’s enough to open doors for me. Which would lead me into a life of real life friends. I have more online frie...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationFriendships & BelongingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
13 points

Pretty drastic in how I conduct myself. But the changes will come slowly. As I come to terms with my new found powers, I will push the boundaries every single time to see what would happen and push i...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
3 points

The amount of people on here that kick themselves and practically ask for pity makes me sad and annoyed. Like ofc I feel for you, I’ve felt like that too. I still DECIDED to go accomplish my goals wi...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationEmployment & CareerQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2026
12 points

Yall are fucking weird, that’s what it is. Not being ashamed of stuttering, and being proud of who you are (which includes stutter) is NOT a mental illness lmao get the fuck out of here Idk what I e...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
3 points

Yes, I’ve noticed the same thing. Everything seems much more difficult even ordering a coffee or picking up some food. I just end up in a vicious circle because the less I talk the more I stutter and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2026
34 points

I'm sure 99.9% of people who stutter would give almost anything to wake up without it.. to be able to just speak without fear or embarrassment, join in conversations, find better jobs, to use the ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
2 points

Me siento igual y no se que hacer, la tartamudez realmente afecta a la vida diaria de una persona y su calidad de vida, ahora estoy tomando antidepresivo que también ayuda en la fobia social por lo qu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2026
10 points

I can KINDA get behind this. Because yes we all over analyze ourselves, but just being able to SPEAK is a HUGE. And some stutterers can barely form a sound, which really chips away at your self esteem...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life