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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2014
3 points

The book [Stuttering is Cool](http://www.stutteringiscool.com/stuttering-is-cool-book/) recommends saying at the beginning of a presentation that you're a person who stutters. I seem to have misplaced...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2014
1 points

Honestly, I know it's hard to believe, but you're not isolated because of your stutter, **you isolate yourself because of your stutter**. It's a fact that took me a long time to realize, and still now...

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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2014
1 points

When I first got to college, I was freaked out by how big it was (Pitt). I thought I had made a huge mistake. But then I joined the student newspaper. Over the course of one or two days, I just went u...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2014
2 points

I think your a covert stutterer. My opinion is if your ok being covert, so be it. But if being covert takes tons of energy away from you, drop it....

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
2 points

giving oral presentations is a skill regardless of whether one stutters or not. The best way to learn to manage stuttering while giving oral presentations is to give oral presentations. There is not...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
2 points

I must concur with my weaselish colleague. Advertise first thing and don't hide it. Own it. They care a lot less then you do. Trust us, go forth, and kick butt. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

This is good. Likely everyone already knows. Nobody gives a shit but you, OP. If it helps, apologize in advance and own it. Having cues to improvise from is helpful so you can adapt as you go. Don't s...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
3 points

Here's what I did. Senior year finally came I couldn't hold off on taking business communications any longer(class full of speeches and crap). First day of class during introductions I told everyone t...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
2 points

If you can't hide it well you should tell them about your stutter. I've improved to the point where nobody needs to know about it. But at my first job I told them during my interview....

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2014
2 points

I know that it's also not always that easy. I have a hard time doing it. Writing has really helped me assess myself as a person who stutters and try to verbalize and think with more of a focus. If you...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2014
2 points

Thank you so much! I think it's a lot easier for me to write about it and face and conquer it than it is for me to take it head on. I was talking to a friend the other day and he asked me about the a...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2014
1 points

I totally agree. I was talking to a friend of mine who was diagnosed with PTSD when I realized that. He said he may have been diagnosed, but he hated it as a label because it put him down. He said h...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2014
3 points

>The one thing I refuse to identify myself as is someone who stutters. Not because stuttering is bad, but because it’s just a character trait, much like a big nose or my basketball-sized noggin. I...

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postr/StutterOct 1, 2014
6 points

The truly happy and successful people in this world view stress as a challenge instead of a threat

The truly happy and successful people in this world view stress as a challenge instead of a threat I wish I wasn't like this. But I am. First post here so bear with me. I've had a slight stutter/...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2014
3 points

He taught me a lot of self assurance about stuttering and that it was what I made of it. Example I used to this people made fun of me behind my back because I stuttered. I imagined my class mates maki...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2014
3 points

Great article. Your stutter is what you make of it. Other people won't care as long as you don't. If anything it makes you more genuine. ...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2014
2 points

Okay, thanks for sharing. Up until recently, this was my problem too. In April this year I started getting therapy in a hospital in Germany where I spent 5 weeks at first. In the first two weeks w...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2014
1 points

Ah, yes sorry! PWS is People who stutter! I try to avoid phones too, but it's easier for me to talk and stutter in an interview with a random person if they can't see my face. And I'm able to be in m...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

You might just be one voice, but I'm sure there are many others who will see the piece the same way that you do, and I want to make it available to all audiences. When I get a chance, I will take a fi...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2014
2 points

I totally get what you mean and where you're coming from now. Thank you for clarifying that. I must not have wrote as clearly as I thought I did (a very common problem for me). I didn't mean for it ...

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