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commentr/StutterApr 27, 2016
1 points

It varies tremendously. As I wrote in a thread it can be non existent to mildly frustrating. I think the majority of mine is self affliction and anxiety as when I am drunk friends of mine have comment...

Causes & VariabilityMeds & SubstancesParent & Caregiver
Severity & FluctuationRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Treatment Decisions+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2016
3 points

I'm about to graduate medical school and I stutter in front of patients, teachers, and peers. When I do stutter, I mention that I stutter in a confident, brief way and move on. In my estimation, that ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2016
6 points

Fluency isn't what they mean by excellent communication skills. When they ask for excellent communication skills, they're not thinking about stutterers, theyre thinking about the fluent people with ho...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2016
3 points

Shun them out of your life when you can. I know that they're family, your blood, but family doesn't treat you that way....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2016
2 points

Then let him crack jokes, nobody's stopping him. I make fun of myself all the time, and my friends die laughing too. I don't give a fuck. Just the other day I was stuttering on "are" and by the time ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideHumor & Community ToneSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2016
2 points

I think you need to tell them. Or if you don't tell the class, at least let your professor know so that he grades you fairly....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2016
4 points

Stutter worsens if you are nervous. I personally find letting the audience know beforehand helps a lot because you're no longer worried about hiding your stutter or limiting it during your presentatio...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2016
2 points

I get fucking pissed when someone goes out of their way to try to "help" me for their own personal gain. Usually it's in public when I'm around other people, and someone I know will like make either a...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerListener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2016
2 points

Never had this happen. Me and my friends have an unspoken agreement that they only 'help' if A) its a particularly bad block AND B) I am talking to a 3rd party (waiter or whatnot). Otherwise, listen...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesListener ReactionsHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2016
4 points

Unsolicited Comfort

Unsolicited Comfort I want to know the stuttering community's thoughts on this situation. A couple of weeks ago, I was talking to a friend and I stuttered. This was not the first time I stuttered aro...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2016
1 points

Thank you i am really open about it abd all my close friends know about how i feel about my ummmm gift. anyways how do i deal with the people who decide to make snag remarks or make jokes about it? Th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2016
2 points

Put your focus on what you want to say and not how you're going to say it. You can't control if it's going to be easy or tough in terms of speech, so just keep your mind on your answers and not on you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
1 points

Depends on the person, I'd say ask questions about it, if he brings it up. If he doesn't than don't worry about. As for finishing sentences, I'd say your safest bet is not to do that. :) ...

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Listener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterFeb 16, 2016
3 points

Staying positive sure is hard!

Staying positive sure is hard! Hey folks, I've used Reddit in the past when i needed help with unimportant things like video games and stuff and I've always left with some great information so after d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesGenetic & Family FactorsStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2016
15 points

I work as a waiter, its both scary & great

I work as a waiter, its both scary & great I work part time on the weekends as server. I worked at the restaurant since my college years during the summer. For years I worked as a host. My stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2016
4 points

I handle myself decently imo at parties. Drinking isn't a part of my social strategy as I don't partake. Generally at parties I'm too focused on the people I'm talking to or having people around me en...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2016
10 points

Took me years to realize just being honest is the way to go. If you find yourself in a block just say casually, "I don't know if you know but I stutter." It's much big of a deal for you than it is fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2016
1 points

I would but despite that the person stutters, I for some reason feel guilty for people who stutter just like me. I actually find it hard to listen to what they have to say but I remember at the same t...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2016
2 points

I only told someone that I stuttered before I started a conversation that was sort of an interview just over a week ago and you don't understand how amazing it was. I never wanted to tell anyone that ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2016
1 points

That makes so much sense. Thanks for the tip. Having to "prove" I had a stutter to someone seemed like a really scary task. With someone who already knows what to look for, I feel like it would be les...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries