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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2016
1 points

I think your first step is to tell them their behavior is offensive. They might not realize they're offending you. If it continues you can confront the behavior directly (e.g., I've told you this of...

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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2016
5 points

I've only ever been teased or mocked about my stutter two times. I'm only 23 so maybe I've got plenty coming my way, but yeah first time was in highschool. The second and third were both at places of ...

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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2016
2 points

I look them in the eye and say, "I actually have a stutter, can't help it," and I go on with what I'm saying. They'll shut the hell up about it, 9/10 times....

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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2016
3 points

Do they know that you stutter as a condition? Perhaps a chat individually or redirecting a question at them such as "what is the point in mocking me for a speech impediment that is difficult to contr...

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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2016
6 points

Your coworkers may not understand what stuttering is and maybe you could try to educate them on stuttering if that happens again, or just try to avoid those jerks. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2016
1 points

I always tell people beforehand, mention that I'm so used to it that it's not a big deal to me. Then I'll make a joke like "just wanna let you all know what's going on so you don't think I'm having a ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2016
6 points

I recommend going out of your way to talk with them just to show that you don't mind talking directly, in case that is why they are messaging you....

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2016
1 points

I don't have an answer, and I'm not sure if this comment will be welcome here but I just wanted to point out that you can't ever know the struggles of others. The people you meet may be struggling wit...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2016
2 points

You could talk to the teacher and say that you stutter and that you do not want to be asked things...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2016
1 points

Yes, it is absolutely possible. To be honest, I would try online dating (like Tinder etc) and then just simply be open and tell them about your stutter so they are aware and you aren't as nervous when...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2016
8 points

The kind of people who don't accept the stutter are the kind of people you don't want to be with in the first place. It makes things harder, but there's someone for everyone. I met my wife in the da...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2016
2 points

I was called a broken record when I was growing because of how bad my stutter was. My best friend always had to be by my side, she was the only one that could understand me. I went to speech therapy ...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2016
2 points

Your stutter didn't ruin your relationship--you did, by not being honest and open or willing to really try. Do *not* blame your stutter for that. That is all you. The sooner you accept that accountabi...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2016
2 points

I used to do that. They would feel bad, and I thought I would feel good cause I got them to be apologetic. Still ended up feeling bad that I couldn't say my name (whenever this situation occurred). Bu...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2016
2 points

Flip it on them! I say, "no, I just have a speech problem" and then they usually are super apologetic and feel like a dick. It's a good lesson for them to learn....

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2016
3 points

>and an apology for the last speech This is just me, but I think you should never apologize for stuttering. It's what you have and it's not something you do on purpose. If other people feel inconv...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2016
5 points

Im not gonna tell you to just relax or w/e. You will stutter from time to time its gonna happen. Accepting your stutter is really important in school. I used to let my stutter rule my life in my early...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2016
5 points

Well consider the fact that you are a girl makes it so that you immediately have it easier than most male stutterers. Least in the dating world. Nobody will expect you to make a first move or call you...

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commentr/StutterSep 1, 2016
1 points

It's all about breaking that mould. Being comfortable with being uncomfortable. You do it once and it'll be easier to do it again. Focus on your breathing especially if it's making you uncomfortable w...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2016
1 points

Let's say I'm seeing somebody else who has a speech impediment - should I just avoid talking about it all together then? I just see it the same as complimenting somebody on anything else that's physic...

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