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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2018
1 points

This is not ok, but be cautious ascribing malice to what could better be explained by nerves. People get nervous when they encounter a stutterer and don't understand what is going on, so they try to...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2018
1 points

Remember that using stuttering reduction techniques takes a ton of effort. He will not always want to use them, and that's his choice. He may use them all day at school, but when he gets home, he's ju...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2018
6 points

>**I usually just wait with a smile for him to finish.** Is there anything at home I can do to help him more? Nope, that's enough. :) The sooner he learns that people can wait, the better. You mi...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2018
1 points

Sometimes when I talk to people I tell them beforehand that I have a stutter, and then it becomes much easier to talk to them. This depends on how severe you stutter is.....I can't say if it helps eve...

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postr/StutterSep 21, 2018
7 points

Can't even talk to parents

Can't even talk to parents This is so frustrating , I can't even communicate with the people close to me. It all gets so frustrating at times. It's not that , my parents rush me or anything , they are...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2018
1 points

I used to be like this. But I realized that, frankly, there isn’t enough room in your heart for hatred, no matter how well earned. They aren’t worth your hatred. Let it go....

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2018
3 points

Many times random people laughing or saying things like, “Did you forget your name”, are ignorant of your disorder. They may feel awkward and never been in that situation. You have to take it with a...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
3 points

I completely agree. Unless they're being wildly obnoxious and continue to belittle you after you explain it, just let it go. Stuttering isn't a super well-known condition, some people are bound to mis...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
12 points

Like, someone you just met and doesn't know you? They're probably just being playful and didn't mean to pinch a nerve. Or someone who knows you're a stutterer and is bullying you? That's a shitty lo...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
1 points

>And don't give me the " no one cares or notices if you stutter" bullshit. They do. I'm definitely not gonna give you that bullshit, it makes me laugh to think about it... it's like the kind of a...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
1 points

Just go and talk. In today’s world people really wont care you stutter or no. Just go and be nice to people. I have tons of friends all my life and never had a problem. ...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2018
11 points

Communication skills != perfect fluency. Literally the worst communication skills I've ever seen have come from people who don't stutter. Make your stutter work for you. "Yeah, I stutter, but that mea...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2018
1 points

To me, not acknowledging it, it becomes the elephant in the room. By acknowledging it, I let people know that it is okay to talk about it. ...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2018
1 points

I don't understand why you have to tell them that you stutter. I never tell people, when i'm having a conversation, that i stutter. Only if they ask me, then i'll gladly explain to them that i do st...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2018
12 points

Seems like they are just trying to show you it's Ok, but overdoing it as you say. Maybe just talk to them after class and tell them you'd prefer to just be treated normal lol...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2018
2 points

This is exactly what you have to do. This is my senior year at uni and when I stutter when talking to someone, I don't explain why it happens. Usually people don't interrupt, and if they ask why I am ...

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2018
2 points

Thanks for this post - good things can happen when you look at the positive sides of the stutter and openly share your experiences. I always try to mention my stutter in the first few minutes of a jo...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
1 points

I also sometimes tell people that I stutter before I talk, and it becomes much easier to deal with. My stutter worsens with social anxiety, so with the social anxiety away, I can talk with ease. The o...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
2 points

I've also noticed how it gets much better when I tell the friends that I'm with that I'm struggling with stuttering in the current situation. It sort of releases this intense "fear" or anxiety of sta...

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commentr/StutterSep 12, 2018
2 points

Made me understand that treating people with respect is paramount and the most important thing in the world. I want people to give me a fair shot so I HAVE to do the same back to them. Additionally, t...

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