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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2019
6 points

I lift weights and I have a fat mustache. They don’t mock my stutter.. I mock theirs and they don’t even have one....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2019
5 points

Friends and family are the ones that need to respect that and not laugh or whatever. Ya got to be really clear to him that he was way out of line. Set your boundaries. We are born this way. Its like ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2019
6 points

We have no representation because we don't speak upm whether we can't even bring it up or too scared to be put into the spotlight where we have to talk. That needs to change. Theres millions if us i w...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Public Awareness / MediaSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2019
2 points

When mocked I usually say "does it make you feel better to do that?" It generally makes the other person feel very awkward and rightly so. Fuck people who make fun of or pick on people for the way the...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2019
16 points

Do yourself a favor and choose the program you really think you have an interest in. Current you wants to avoid speaking and stuttering to save yourself from embarassment, but future you will hate thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2019
3 points

But you can't hide the stutter either so you might as well disclose the elephant in the room. I've had nothing but positive experiences after disclosing it in and it has boosted my confidence....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2019
1 points

In interviews, have you tried bringing it up in your introduction/before the interview starts? It can boost confidence and make you have more direct eye contact. Usually employers like to see someone ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2019
2 points

I would consider addressing it, respectfully, within context of 1:1 conversation. You deserve respect just like everybody else and are worth being an advocate for. I always consider it a favor to ev...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2019
9 points

one of my managers jokingly said that i have brain damage once and i've had multiple other managers mock me too. some of them didn't know i have a stutter so you should probably clear it out with them...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2019
3 points

It's not true. You can talk to your mum and explain your feelings. During college many professor thought that i was doing intentionally and my grades were pretty bad, you've to talk to your professor...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2019
2 points

I personally don’t like it when people finish my sentences. But you can ask that person. It’s not impolite to ask and I think they would be flattered that you care....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Listener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2019
1 points

Why on earth would you "not be allowed" because you have a stammer? Don't let it hold you back...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2019
2 points

I'm happy there are people like you in the world. First of all, treat him as you would treat any guy and also don't feel sorry. For me, as a strong gender I wouldn't like to be shown some pity, it's...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterMar 26, 2019
87 points

I introduced my stutter!

I introduced my stutter! I had a huge presentation a couple of days ago, where I present in front of a jury my design-concept, and then we discuss them with details, and then they have to choose one b...

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Mindfulness & BreathingSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
3 points

Don’t finish sentences for him. Be patient and give him time to get it out. I hate when people finish my sentences for me......

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
1 points

Don’t talk about his stutter. Let him bring it out, be patient. Let them finish what they’re trying to say. ...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
5 points

Let him speak, don't talk to him about his stutter, unless he starts a conversation about it. ...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2019
3 points

First things first: go up and talk to them. Anyone who gives a shit/is bothered by it isn't worth your time anyway....

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2019
17 points

At school I punched a teacher in the face for saying this to me, the great thing was he got punished not me. LOL. I am 22 now, but dont regret 15 year old me doing that....

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postr/StutterMar 23, 2019
5 points

A couple of reasons why you should disclose your stutter!

A couple of reasons why you should disclose your stutter! * Stutterers that disclose have a higher quality of life (https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jfludis.2018.10.003) * Listeners have a better perception ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others