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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
2 points

Marriage is hard, very hard. Stuttering is tiny potatoes in the grand scheme of things....

Social & Relationships
Family Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
2 points

Having a stutter doesn’t dictate if a marriage will go well. How you’re doing mentally and how honest you are in your communication will dictate how well the marriage goes....

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Family Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
2 points

I've stuttered all my life. I have been with my wife for 21 years, and my stammer has never been an issue for her. My snoring, on the other hand......

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
39 points

Been married 12 years. My wife doesn’t even comment or do anything. Just patiently waits if I have a block, and if I can’t get it out at all I’ll say “sorry I can’t get that out at all right now” she ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
4 points

Been married for 10 years and my wife had no idea, I only told her about it a couple years ago during a couples therapy session....

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Family Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
3 points

Been married 3 times, still married for 30 years. Any problems I had with ex-wives had nothing to do with stuttering. When you meet the “right one” they will have your back and all will be good....

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Acceptance & PrideFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
11 points

I don’t think stuttering has any affect on marriage. I have a stutter and have been with my husband for 12 years. Both very happy and he has great humour around my stutter which always makes me laugh!...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
23 points

My brother stutters too, and his marriage ended in divorce. However, his stutter wasn’t the reason for the divorce; it was the wife being a classic whore. Regardless, a stutter won’t be a significant...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
2 points

23, I have an extremely severe stutter and I have enough friends, not as many close friends as I want but I’ve heard adulthood is like that. It’s all about putting yourself out there, most people are ...

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Friendships & BelongingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
6 points

Many people who don’t have a stutter really don’t know how hard it is or don’t know how much it’s tied to mental health as well. It’s normal for your mom to do that so I wouldn’t blame her but I also ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
8 points

You are wrongfully directing your anger at her. It’s ok to be angry with the situation, but it’s not a fault of your mom. If I were in her shoes, “I’m just making sure that my nephew/niece knows that ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterOct 17, 2024
6 points

Am I wrong for being angry at my mom?

Am I wrong for being angry at my mom? My little cousin had his birthday today and out of nowhere when I was playing games, mom came to my room while holding phone and told me that I need to wish my co...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
1 points

Yeah, recently just had a rant about my stuttering to my parents, they're not really sure how to help though. One of my relatives who stuttered passed away a few years ago and I don't talk to the othe...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Family Support & ConflictAdvice Offered
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
1 points

Where? I cant get help, i love my mom, but i cant tell her never what i wrote on the post, if she sees me like that shes gonna break. I have no one else...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2024
0 points

Most of my doubt comes from a lack of boundaries with my family and my stuttering. I wish they could seriously feel what it feels like for me. My mom…it’s like she makes it seem like I’m bothering her...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
3 points

Your family is unacceptable and doesn’t your mother understand that you might have this stutter due to a family member also having it. It’s dehumanizing what you’re going through but infuriating that ...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Family Support & ConflictTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
1 points

Wow that's some bullshit no one should have to put up with yet so many of us seem to have this happen in some setting.  Clearly they don't desire to change and you aren't the problem. Stupidity can ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerTrauma & Psychological+2 more
postr/StutterSep 24, 2024
24 points

Getting called the r-word by family

Getting called the r-word by family I struggle to speak when I'm feeling nervous which is almost all the time when I'm around them because they latch on anything I say and make fun of it. They insist...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingTrauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2024
0 points

Yeah,alot.I used to tell jokes to my sister and she would just laugh and tell me to talk like a man and stop stuttering.The first thing our family friends were told about me everytime we meet is that ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2024
1 points

Yes, and my advice for finding good relationships. “The quality of the fish you catch depends on what pond you're fishing in” 77f stutterer who fished in a good pond and was married to a wonderful p...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingFamily Support & Conflict