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commentr/StutterSep 12, 2020
2 points

Ugh that sucks. Good for you for going to the gym knowing that you’d have to do that. Some people would just avoid it to avoid stuttering. So, congrats for not avoiding. Sometimes if I’m having a tou...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2020
33 points

You’re better off in the long run standing up for yourself instead of being a little bitch. Hopefully this doesn’t come off as offensive, but people that are okay with making fun of others usually don...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2020
4 points

Yeah I would just walk away if they made fun of my stutter. If they make fun of you, they clearly don’t care enough about the conversation and I would just be wasting my breath. And I don’t like wasti...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesQuality of Life
postr/StutterSep 11, 2020
3 points

Annoyed at myself

Annoyed at myself I don’t know why self disclosure is just so hard sometimes. I’m usually pretty good about it when doing (or taking) interviews, presentations, and in meetings, but today when we were...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2020
5 points

If the people there know that you stutter, there is no need to fear. They will expect you to take longer and no problem will happen. As a non stutterer, we give less shits (most of the time) about it ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2020
2 points

Some tips I find useful for job interviews: Know what you're good at and roughly what you want to say based on your values and experiences. Only rehearse exact phrasing if you find that helpful. Othe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2020
1 points

It seems I didn't accept my stuttering, fully. But one thing I cannot accept is being defenseless, letting people do whatever they want to. And I don't know how to go around that. I understand that I ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2020
1 points

Man I wish I would be like you, I tried... but then I have bad days or it can be just one and I don't live with integrity, and the people I bother or well... if you stand up for yourself that's good b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
1 points

These were three tips that really helped me a couple months ago. Practice the interview beforehand or maybe do a mock interview at [westutter.org](https://westutter.org). The second tip is to mention ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalFluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
1 points

Self Disclosing is a great tool to use especially in a school setting if you feel uncomfortable. I started classes this semester and already disclosed to my professors and students about my stutter an...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
1 points

In my personal opinion, absolutely. In the case you ever may need to speak, 1 - you'll feel better because everyone knows what to expect and won't be confused or asking questions/laughing, etc. And 2 ...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
1 points

Everyone's preferences are different, but disclosing my stutter is one of the absolute best things I've ever done for myself. I've always worried that people spend more time focusing on how I speak ra...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
3 points

Best thing I ever did in undergrad was going up to each professor after the first class and explain my situation. I’m here. I want to participate. It just takes me a little longer to get my words out....

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterSep 8, 2020
1 points

,,

,, should i tell my teachers that i stutter ? bc i dont really talk during classes so idk if i shoud tell them...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
2 points

I see. I cannot help with that as confidence is the only thing in the world with which I never had a problem with. I can be a sociopath if I want to, completely disregard other's feelings. What I advi...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
2 points

I know, and I know that there're good assholess too. I am different overall man, I don't fit in, never did. But the point what is different that other can defend themselves, I can't. I can't say a fck...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
10 points

I feel you. I really do. I started high school 3 weeks ago, and believe me, I almost shit myself the week before because I was stressed. Especially the introductions the first day. But, listen. The fi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
5 points

Non stutterer. Only a very small part of people actually want to harm you Bc they are assholes. From my experience, everyone has something that they get bullied for, with jokes and shit. And everyone ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2020
1 points

I try to think of any questions they might ask me and I practice the answers by talking out loud. I interview myself and answer my questions regarding previous work experience and how it applies for t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2020
9 points

Be open and up front about your stutter from the jump. This gives you control over your situation. Then showcase your experience and how you can contribute to the team. You’ll be great. Go get em!...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others