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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2025
6 points

Yes, I had several, before meeting my wife who I've been with for almost 20 years. I knew early on that with a stutter I wasn't gonna be able to walk up to some random woman-they had to know me first....

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2025
2 points

Why are women who don't want to date stutterers "superficial" and "judgmental" ?...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2025
1 points

The cope by people in this sub is insane. Of course your chances reduce. You will need to be 3-4 times better than normal guys in other areas like money, charisma and status to compete. That is the ...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2025
7 points

Naw man, only you can hold yourself back. I have a mild stutter and I am 8 years into a relationship with the girl who was my high school crush. I was an infantryman in the army, and have been a softw...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2025
8 points

I realize I didn't actually answer the question, just given personal experience. Whether or not it is harder to approach women is entirely up to you. Confidence is key, and as a stutterer, I understa...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2025
27 points

I got lucky early and the girl I asked to senior prom didn't care about my stutter one bit. Could it have been the fact that I was in excellent shape and super confident in myself? Probably. But whate...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2025
15 points

No. I have a wife, a daughter and 2 dogs while being a stutterer....

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2025
8 points

As a fellow stutterer, it’s really important to find a partner who understands and who you feel comfortable around. If they don’t want to date you because you have a stutter, then they’re not the righ...

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postr/StutterDec 30, 2025
35 points

Can a stutter get a girlfriend?

Can a stutter get a girlfriend? I'm not a extreme stutter but I think it will reduce my chance getting a girlfriend. For example she asks suggest me a movie and I will go like watch The Curious Case o...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2025
1 points

Hey, thank you for comment. I am generally good person, I don't want others to suffer. For example, I stopped playing soccer (which I extremely loved) because of multiple knee surgeries, but I am ver...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2025
2 points

Thank you for your response. The date went well, she even kissed me but I haven’t heard from her again. This outcome always makes me wonder whether my stutter had anything to do with it, but maybe it ...

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postr/StutterDec 25, 2025
21 points

My life this year with Stuttering.

My life this year with Stuttering. ‎Hi to my stuttering Reddit community. Merry Christmas to you all, and I hope you’re having a blessed day 🙏🏽 ‎ ‎I wanted to be honest about how this year has been ...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2025
1 points

lol cursing your friends reminds me of that scene talladega nights: “I hope that both of you have sons. Handsome, beautiful, articulate sons who are talented and star athletes and they have their leg...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2025
1 points

The more you want love the more you push it away it’s not something that you can just go and get it has to form organically and as someone who has experienced it before it gets old after the first cou...

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postr/StutterDec 23, 2025
6 points

I often wish my friends to suffer and cry from lack of love/romance

I often wish my friends to suffer and cry from lack of love/romance I never experienced romantic love. Never. I can't explain you with words how much this hurts. And I need it so much. Like fucking wa...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
1 points

So i understand training. But how is it with stutter building relationships with others, interactions? / how old r u...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
1 points

Your stutter is what makes you unique! Trust me when I promise you your Dates will be charmed by it and will help you find the confidence you are looking for. There is no remedy to stuttering, however...

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postr/StutterDec 19, 2025
2 points

How can I be more confident in my stutter?

How can I be more confident in my stutter? I have always been very self conscious about my stutter, I’ve lost a lot of opportunities because of it and it’s made me want to hide my stutter. I never go ...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2025
1 points

I experience this too, and I believe I understand the reasons, though knowing them hasn't made it much easier to overcome. It's all about confidence. With most of my family, I rarely stutter but my...

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commentr/StutterDec 16, 2025
1 points

It honestly sounds like more of an anxiety issue than an actual neurological stutter. The way you’re describing it sounds like the idea of picking up the phone stresses you out which hence gives you a...

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