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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
6 points

A lot of people just don’t give a fuck. As stutters we over think a lot of things. If you don’t want to be ignored, simply put yourself into the light and be the center of attention. I’m guessing you’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2020
2 points

at the highest level, it's due to a focussed attention to it. if i were to break it down to some overly simplistic internal, subconscious dialogue, it would probably go something like this: "hey, GayG...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2020
2 points

Many times it is in group interviews, actually most of it. So, it is really much harder to build the connection when the employer is far, and there is too many people. Do u have any tips for this?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2020
1 points

for me it's the other way around: when I'm with family and friends i stutter less but put me in front someone i don't know or I'm not comfortable around my stuttering is kinda bad. if i had to rate my...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
7 points

Damn dude I could've been the one that wrote this. In college I had a big friend group and while the stutter was still existent, it never affected my day to day maybe other than big presentations. Sin...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2019
1 points

I am also the only one in my family who has ever presented with a stutter. I went to a speech therapist a couple of times growing up, but found it pretty useless because their method of initial asses...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
1 points

was it in front of many people ? i'am scared shitless now of doing any kind of speaking in front of a group consisting of more than one person xD...

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Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
1 points

Aren't strip clubs loud and filled with drunk men? They probably won't notice and if they do will likely be drunk enough to just ignore it...

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Audience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2019
1 points

STEM programs usually have nice people in a way I think they tend to be less judgmental of our speech, at least that' was my experience. I did econ + comp sci. Same goes for my former workplace, I wo...

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School & Academic LifeEmployment & CareerPower Dynamics & Intimidation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
4 points

I hate this stereotype but "c'est la vie" I have made it a point to be assertive when it comes to things that matter. Sometimes I feel like I am pushed into a situation where I can't though... I was...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2019
2 points

Tell them you stutter, because they might think you are really nervous....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2019
1 points

i also have trouble talking in groups but it isnt as big of a problem as my lack of humor which is all group of people focus, laughing....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2019
2 points

Discussing the same topic 1 on 1 is completely different to group discussions. I can comfortably speak with people being easy and casual but as soon as there are more eyes looking at me, i am all over...

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Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2019
19 points

Yesterday I was having lunch in the canteen with my friend. He saw another group he knew and asked if I would mind moving over to them. I say sure of course. The next 45 minutes consisted of nothing...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2019
6 points

Same here! I can normally be somewhat fluent in one on one conversations but group conversations are the absolute worst...

Social & Relationships
Audience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2019
6 points

ikr! Group conversations are the worst! If you want to talk you need to hit the timing precisely or you wont be heard which is so frustrating. Also if you happen to stumble on something it often happe...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Audience Scale & Group SizeAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2019
2 points

Hey man, 16 yo here. My stutter usually becomes tormenting if I'm talking to my parents about something that happened, or generally if I'm thinking about sonething I want to tell them. With my mother...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2019
4 points

For me it's the opposite, I stutter a lot when doing presentations, but when casually speaking to a group, I stutter less....

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Audience Scale & Group SizePublic Speaking
postr/StutterOct 14, 2019
3 points

Stuttering makes no sense

Stuttering makes no sense I don’t stutter when I talk to myself, I don’t stutter a lot when speaking to one person, yet I stutter so much when I’m talking to a group of people casually, yet when I giv...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Situational VariabilityCycles & RandomnessSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
2 points

Group conversations are hard as hell for me as well. I know what I’m supposed to do, but it’s hard, so I often am quiet. Generally what gets me anywhere is if I really plan out something I will say. ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment