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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2025
4 points

I say “I’m …” whenever I have to say my name. The “I’m” is kind of like a cushion and I rarely stutter on it anymore. It definitely works for me, so give it a shot....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2025
5 points

Hey, man. I hope this comment finds you well. My name is Viktor and I am 19M from Bulgaria. I see a part of myself in your post. Maybe "saw" is a better word here. I conquered my stutter at 18, but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterApr 9, 2025
26 points

Presentation

Presentation I had a presentation today, it went awful ☠️ It was supposed to take 20 minutes but ended up taking like 40+ and i felt like i was stuck on the beginning of every new sentence i was tryin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2025
1 points

:( All the time! What's worse, i can be on a roll talking, no issues at all! But, if i get interrupted!! :( It's like someone just through a wrench in my mental/verbal gears! My mind stops... i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesLoss of Control
postr/StutterApr 9, 2025
9 points

Tips to say my name

Tips to say my name I struggle a lot when anyone asks me my name, how can I be fluid? ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

just first of all do u like music well if you do rap helps most ppl bc u can pronounce the words fast and practice like that but start off rlly small instead of ordering on uber eats go to the drive t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

You can stutter and not engage in avoidance behaviors. I’m sorry you don’t understand...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 8, 2025
32 points

Just a friendly reminder stuttering doesn't have to define your life, nor is it the cause of all your problems. You can

Just a friendly reminder stuttering doesn't have to define your life, nor is it the cause of all your problems. You can I stuttered since a young child. In my teens and 20's I avoided life. The phone ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

Speech therapy does work.  Pausing before talking reduces the pressure of the situation and gets you more comfortable with silences. It primes you for success. Talking slowly gives you more contro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalSituational Variability+3 more
postr/StutterApr 8, 2025
8 points

Anyone gotten better with their stuttering? What did y’all do?

Anyone gotten better with their stuttering? What did y’all do? My stutter is mild and it’s more of a stammer where the words can’t come out “mmmmm” “sssss”. I heard reading out loud and talking slowly...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

The great thing about getting older is that I stopped giving a shit what people think of me. I would disclose my stutter if I felt I was going to have a hard time and people were so kind and accepting...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterMedicationApr 8, 2025
2 points

Today had a follow-up visit with my doctor. I explained that Mysoline is no longer working for me. So now we're moving on to the third treatment option: a beta blocker. I'm starting it tomorrow. Does ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
6 points

Hi there, I stutter as well. I found a lot of direction and confidence in finding a support group. Connecting with organizations like the National Stuttering Association (NSA) helped me realize I wasn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

I second everyone who suggested you disclose it before the interview! I started doing it a few years ago and I think it really improved my job interviews outcomes! And definitely don't apologize for i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterApr 8, 2025
32 points

Beyond depressed

Beyond depressed I am 24 and have had a stutter my whole life I have had many different jobs, I even had a job answering phones for a period of time. A year or 2 ago my stutter and confidence got to t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
2 points

Ignore it. Do not acknowledge it. It will likely pass in time. Or, it won't. But no intervention needed now....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2025
1 points

Tell them in the beginning that you have a stutter. And don’t consider stutter a disability, just think that’s something that makes you unique. I had an interview where the interviewer told me “I’m su...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2025
3 points

What works for me is finding synonyms for the word I can't say. Before saying the word, I can know if I'm going to stutter, and before saying it, I can change it for another similar word. In a fluid c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAssistive Devices
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2025
1 points

I never really had an issue dating and I’m pretty average looking. Nothing special. One thing I like to do is tell my date pretty much right away that I have a stutter because it’s essentially all abo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2025
1 points

So when I was at that age, a little older actually, it really came to a head for me.  I thought about it all day, night, next morning, it was my scapegoat for everything and it got to the point where ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more