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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2020
2 points

You know, maybe you should join our discord server. There are a lot of people who stutter from different countries and you might like it. There should be a link in the "about" section of r/stutter if ...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2020
2 points

hey i’m almost 17 and i have a mild stutter and i also have social anxiety as well and trust me i know how you feel. it’s literally the worst thing ever. staying home to avoid presentations, constan...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2020
2 points

I met a classmate in college who did, and it made me want to befriend her so bad. I’ve never had a friend who stutter. Actually! Brain blast. Had a neighbor kid who I hung out with sometimes as kids...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2020
2 points

I could relate to everything you said I was in the same situation. What I came to the conclusion that I was lonely I didn't have anyone to talk to so I would suggest you to join some stammering self-h...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2020
3 points

going out if your way to talk to people will help out believe it or not. dont look at the bad side of going out to talk to people & stuttering. look at it as, “i gave it a shot and went out of my ...

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postr/StutterAug 16, 2020
63 points

Its suffocating. Help me.

Its suffocating. Help me. I'm 18(F) and I dont know who I am anymore. I dont know how to react to things. I dont know the appropriate behaviour. I do things thinking that they would lead to a certain ...

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commentr/StutterAug 15, 2020
2 points

Totally understand! You are not lazy, you are suffering from what can be a debilitating disorder. Many people will say, "Oh, just go get speech therapy."; however, for many people therapy may not b...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
3 points

Hahah, same here. I tried searching for a community long ago in HS but you had to go to in person meetings and such. I’m happy to find that post and hopefully this place can help me feel more comforta...

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postr/StutterAug 14, 2020
6 points

Any stutterers that have friends that stutter?

Any stutterers that have friends that stutter? I have a guy at work that has a stutter that seems to be worse than mine. Neither of us acknowledged one another’s, but we’re really good friends and it ...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2020
1 points

Hey. I'm in the same boat as you, also 16 with a stutter I have had my whole life. My family aren't really bothered about it, especially as I rarely stutter around them. Though, some of my close frie...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2020
3 points

I was the same way when i started High School. A Big thing to remember is that literally no one cares that you stutter, its all in your head. Dont skip classes because of presentations like i did, not...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2020
4 points

I remember this exact same feeling. I am in college now, but I will never forget the time right before my first day of high school. I will not try to convince you not to be stressed because believe me...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2020
1 points

Stressed about what? Just know that there are many other freshmen feeling them same way. Be sure two make at least a few friends the first day...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2020
17 points

As someone who read a lot, and I mean a lot, of books about stuttering, I found most of them useless. But no harm in reading, you’ll always gain something from reading. Unfortunately, at least for me,...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2020
1 points

Oh, I'm sure you'll be able to encounter plenty of heroes. Like, if you find a good therapist, or a good friend or family member to talk things through with, or good people around you in general, who ...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2020
1 points

I can relate with you completely. I have had it as a kid. I am 24 years old now and same story, always had such a difficult time making friends and was super quiet around people even though I would ...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2020
1 points

>and when I try to connect and express myself the people (in some sense) move away These people are not your friends; You aren't losing anything by not having friends like these; People who unde...

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commentr/StutterAug 11, 2020
1 points

Find new friends. My friends never laugh at me when I stutter, and if they did I’d tell them to fuck right off. Not to mention the jokes are repetitive as hell so it’s really not funny even if someone...

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commentr/StutterAug 11, 2020
4 points

Ey, it's tough out here playa ngl...Idk what caused me to 1 day snap out of my inner obsession with my stuttering many years ago but one day I got tired of concentrating so much on my stutter and just...

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postr/StutterAug 10, 2020
31 points

I Don't have any friends

I Don't have any friends Hello, I'm a 23 year old male. I have had a stammer from the age of six. During my formative years I was really oblivious of my stammer, and easily expressed my individuality ...

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