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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
1 points

I usually just say ‘excuse I have a small stutter’ and keep trying the word until it comes out. I’m convinced many people have never seen someone with a stutter before and if I just advise I have a st...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
1 points

Engaging in self-harm indicates that you don’t yet face the internal ability to “just do it”, as many are suggesting. 1. Make eye contact when talking. Hold it. (Worst outcome is the person taki...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2022
5 points

Thank you for your comments. Same to you my friend. At 52 yes my stuttering has gotten better just due to maturity but I still face a lot of the same issues I did when I was younger. The hardest part...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2022
1 points

52 year old stutter been doing it for life. I have dealt with the same thing. No 100% solid answer. I turned into an asshole of sorts in the sense that when someone tries to belittle me like that I ge...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2022
2 points

Ok that makes sense then who cares what they think or say now cause you’ll never see them again lol...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2022
2 points

Theses people won’t really friends. They were like in between friends and acquaintances so I didn’t want to make some big deal over it, also they were all seniors so there not gonna be there in like 2...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2022
2 points

Yeah I get it there has been times I let ppl Slide with comments like that pick and choose your battles but you should never let friends slide with that because they might do it again. Have a great da...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2022
3 points

Normally I’m really good about telling people off about that stuff but I had just asked some else not to finish my word for me, and they go supper defensive :|. So I didn’t want to be just up everyone...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
15 points

This is a great response. And if it causes the did-you-forget-your-name person some discomfort, that's fine. Hopefully that discomfort will help to train them for future encounters....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
8 points

I can't stand when they joke "did you forget your name" inside my head I'm like no and do a round house kick....

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Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
8 points

Done it as well in a BJJ gym. The person feels awkward and might not deserve it but what else can you do?...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2022
32 points

Quick tip when they do this just say “I've got a stutter mate” done this on a building site. You've never seen someone go so pale....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterMay 18, 2022
10 points

Stutter at very specific words including my name

Stutter at very specific words including my name I used to stutter a lot (on almost every word) as a kid, but I taught myself to replace the words whenever possible (which is most of the time). As I g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
3 points

Or just try saying your name, and if you get too stuck, spell it out or write it down. Just laugh it off and say, “I stutter, having a tough time with my name haha..” or just “Having a hard time talki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2022
5 points

People should wait until you can say your name. Never change a word because others could feel inpatient. That's none on your business! Allow yourself to requiere more time than the average to speak ...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2022
2 points

Start polishing your resume and giving interviews for other companies. This company where you work seems super toxic and ignorant. Life is too short to be treated this way for something outside the re...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2022
38 points

Sounds like discrimination and possibly a violation of the ADA (if you live in America). Proud of you for standing up for yourself. I would document all of these interactions somewhere. If they haven'...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Access & RightsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterMay 14, 2022
48 points

Partner and HR made fun of my stutter

Partner and HR made fun of my stutter Hello everyone. I work for an accounting firm. Prior to my interview beginning, I told the 3 interviewers that I have a stutter and you might see it during the in...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterMay 13, 2022
3 points

Dude that’s so awesome that you’re trying. Keep at it. You didn’t say you were looking for suggestions but practice in a mirror. Don’t look away when you get those blocks. When you find yourself comi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2022
22 points

Not going to tell you it won’t be hard, it can get hard for sure but don’t ever give up. You can go to military school or any higher education with a stutter. You can work and form meaningful relation...

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