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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2022
2 points

Introducing myself to new people, sometimes they’ll have something smart to say like “did you forget your name or something “ and I always have to tell them no I stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2022
2 points

That is a golden response, Vulnerability, everybody struggles with their Egos getting in the way rather that being physically or emotionally. Imagine all the potential matches that people with speech ...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2022
3 points

Make eye contact. Hold it, normally. Keep doing this. Staaaart taaaaalkimg slooooowly. Telllllllll people you sometimes stutter and it takes you longer to get words out. Keep repeating all of th...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2022
2 points

I think it’s because you have a negative view about assertiveness or commanding attention from others. Maybe you equate powerful speaking with being a tyrant. Or you are just generally afraid of your...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2022
1 points

How did I deal with the awkward moments? That depends on how awkward my interlocutor would make those moments. There were people who literally just waited for me to finish talking, and even if my stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
1 points

I have been advised to let people know several times. However I still don’t for 2 reasons: 1. The word “stutter” is hard for me to say, of course lol! Although speech impediment could work. 2. Unfortu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
2 points

Stuttering is not a disability! Don't let it take control over your life! You can explain to her that you stutter and if she's worthy then she would have no problem with it....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
8 points

Yeah having zero tolerance helped me too when i got older. Now im 22 and whenever say something negative about my stutter they know they are going to hear some really bad words from my mouth lol....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
4 points

I'm in the UK and people are very reserve here. Most people never mention it, a few people bring it up in a polite way to ask/offer advice. It's very rare I get actual negative comments. It was even ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2022
16 points

I'm Australian. My childhood was tough. I imagine kids are just the same everywhere but as an adult, I don't really experience any issues from other people about my stutter. I also have zero tolerance...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
3 points

My dad used to intimidate me because he “didn’t have time” to wait and wanted me to “spit it out”. I think it just led to me speaking to him less. In hindsight, I wish I had told him how it makes me f...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
6 points

You're not debating an opinion. You're telling them how their actions are making you feel. Their intent is irrelevant. Being an inpatient listener and finishing anyone's sentences is rude, but it's es...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
6 points

Are you able to talk to them about this? Can you tell them what you wrote here about how their behavior makes you feel? Your feelings are completely justified....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
9 points

I strongly believe that one reason behind this is because we don't speak up. 1/100 people stutter, yet I never or rarely have a coversation with someone who stutters. I do speak to people who are hid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
2 points

I stutter badly but use the Edinburgh Masker stuttering prosthesis which greatly reduces my stuttering. My first job after getting the Edinburgh Masker was as a driving license hearing officer for th...

Therapy & ProfessionalMeds & SubstancesCoping & Advocacy
Assistive DevicesRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
1 points

I was checking in at the hospital anda the clerk said this to me with a lot of attitude, zero humour. I bawled my eyes out right in front of her and said “I STUTTER” She was so embarrassed....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
3 points

On the phone, I have some good advice for you. But you have to practice very often. I pick up the phone, breathe into my lungs quickly and with concentration. Immediately exhale and in that time I say...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
3 points

This!!! In no way should our stutter couldn’t control our decisions. We should not live with the feeling of keeping things inside, ever. I’m a sucker for giving monologues and articulating in specif...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
2 points

Do you tell people you stutter and that's why you can't say your name? People will usually get off my case when I explain that. Some people are rude and will mock me but I try to ignore it or stay awa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
2 points

Have you considered being upfront and honest with people and just tell them you stutter? You need to take all that pressure off yourself. I used to give my teachers a note on the first day of every ne...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideMindset shift+1 more