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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
5 points

I’m going to keep telling people this because I am a life long blocker and couldn’t use phones or drive through speakers. My husband had to say my name for me. I’m 40 now and I rarely stutter anymore....

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
2 points

Good for you for being open and upfront. It can be hard to get used to. I don’t think anyone likes admitting they aren’t “perfect” (whatever that even means). I find just letting people know takes the...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
1 points

Avevo un amico a scuola che anche se ripeteva le stesse cose giuste degli altri ma balbettando e quindi molto lentamente prendeva voti più bassi di loro, è un peccato perché quando mi scrive vedo che ...

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commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
1 points

Well, with that same thought, i tell people immediately. If you don't replace words for substitutes you won't come over as dumb. They just give you more time. When you talk to them more often they wil...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
8 points

With facts and knowledge about how bad it makes you feel when they say things like that, and that it really discourages you from talking at all....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
1 points

Very relatable hahaha. My tip: introduce yourself and immediately follow up by saying that you stutter and they might not hear you for a while. Almost everyone will give you the time to stutter. (Ex...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
0 points

oh man sorry to hear that. Is she/he your friend or just stranger? Don't fixate on stranger's comments on you so much. But if he/she is your friend, you should inform him/her of your stuttering and ho...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2022
1 points

Don't fail till you fail. If you're competent and the job doesn't require clear fiction like being an ATC or something you'll be fine. "Hey I have a stutter, excuse me" and keep going. Also what's...

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Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2022
3 points

I think the most insensitive comment is not to make comments. What stutterers need most is your patience. Just commit yourself as much as possible into their speeches and that's all. But anyway thx...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2022
14 points

please keep in mind that not all people who stutters think the same thing and one person's response might not be appropriate for another. we are all human beings though, so "Hey man, sorry I made ...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
1 points

lol thats the life man, my brother does the same when we're together "its practice man go ask its practice" shut theeeee, yes, I need to have pre-photos ready and loaded on my phone and need to make u...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
2 points

I’m the youngest in a large family and grew up in a big city. I was always the one sent to the corner store to pick up that day’s meat or fresh produce. Always gave me anxiety telling the butcher my o...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
1 points

I'd like to give your friends the benefit of the doubt, and not believe that as your real and true friends they were very pointedly being cruel. Do you guys banter, or talk shit, in good fun? Me and m...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
2 points

If you are really struggling talking to someone, pause and say sorry. You really don’t need to apologise but hopefully they will say “don’t worry”, “no problem” or “take your time”. They will have rec...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2022
21 points

Went through a Bachelor's and a Master's with this stutter. The only advice I can give you is don't lose your confidence no matter how hard the situation is. I know it is hard AF. One time I was pres...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
School & Academic LifeSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2022
3 points

Hmm. How long was the block or how long was it expected to be? I’ve been there, and I always feel better knowing I said what I wanted to say but stuttered rather than avoiding a stutter and not saying...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2022
3 points

Serious advice here, if you are actually in this situation and can't text, STILL CALL 911, stutter dont matter....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2022
6 points

I'm 20 in my 3rd year on college and let me tell you my friend, it gets better. I was in your SAME shoes all the way until actually, 12th grade. From as early as I can remember, my classmates would AL...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2022
2 points

What drives me insane is people in power thinking this. I’m a current high school student, taking multiple college classes and have done well in every single one that I’ve done, and yet my school coun...

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School & Academic LifeSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2022
3 points

I just have college experience with presentations but just saying: If a professor has no empathy for stuttering then they´re really not as smart as their title. The weight of the situation is on them,...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment