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postr/StutterMay 2, 2017
8 points

I think I just blew it

I think I just blew it I just received a call from Lowes about a job. The employer saw my application and called me to setup an interview. Here's where things went down hill: As soon as that phone ra...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2017
2 points

Make her talk on the phone, order food, and just make her communicate to people as much as possible, especially at a young age. The more reinforcement to not avoid speaking situations the better....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2017
1 points

>Ever since, I've never brought it up and talk as little as possible. Of course that's what this would make most of us want to do. But....well, it sounds like maybe you already know it's leading ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2017
1 points

OP: Yea definitely stop apologizing. Joining a frat worked for me in making tons of friends. Also it will help you stop taking stuttering so seriously....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterApr 30, 2017
5 points

Any tips/advice on socializing in college?

Any tips/advice on socializing in college? I just finished my second year and I've hardly made any friends, I find it difficult to approach and talk to people. I've joined clubs and societies too, but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2017
1 points

Don't run away & make excuses. You start that shit now, it'll become a habit & you'll find yourself repeating this same situation over & over for the rest of your life....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2017
3 points

Yeah, I try my best to avoid substituting. I find it can cause confusion in both me and my listeners. You sometimes stumble through a sentence and lose coherence. It's sometimes handy, in a pinch, but...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2017
3 points

Substitution is a hallmark of a [covert stutterer](http://stutteredspeechsyndrome.com/definitions/covert-stuttering/). Not that it's a bad thing. Covert stuttering is the only way I can sound close t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 27, 2017
25 points

Does anyone else do this

Does anyone else do this So I feel like stuttering has significantly expanded my vocabulary, a lot of the time when I'm trying to say a certain word that I know I will stutter on my brain changes the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 27, 2017
9 points

Just fucked up a job interview by stuttering. I have another interview coming up.

Just fucked up a job interview by stuttering. I have another interview coming up. Hey Everyone, So this is my first time reaching out to any community about my problem. I'm actually surprised one ex...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2017
1 points

The thing is that I don't really stutter that much. It's the speech blocks that are the problem. When I was younger I used to stutter all the time, but rarely get speech blocks, and now it is the oppo...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 26, 2017
5 points

Approaching women..

Approaching women.. Guys, I am 29 M. Have been stuttering since I was 5. Every time I approach women I stutter, and they think that I am not confident or something and they immediately lose interest ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
2 points

Sorry this happened to you, sounds like a big misunderstanding. High school is the worst. Next time maybe try openly stuttering instead of using fillers. Stay positive....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 26, 2017
31 points

"S- s- s- s- stop stuttering, faggot."

"S- s- s- s- stop stuttering, faggot." Gee whiz! With that advice, I'll be stutter-free in no time! That doesn't make me feel shitty about myself in any way, at all! I just don't get the thought proc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingListener Reactions
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
1 points

Huh. I normally just ask if I'm cold. I chuckle and usually tell them what stuttering is. Whenever someone gives "advice", I just say "I've been hearing that for XX years, believe me, I know what the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Offered
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2017
7 points

That would be nice if I could say all that without stuttering, wasting more time :)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 26, 2017
10 points

One of the worst speech blocks I have ever gotten

One of the worst speech blocks I have ever gotten I go to an online school because I am so afraid of going to public school because of my stutter. I have many, many horrible memories of randomly getti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
postr/StutterApr 25, 2017
5 points

I got teased in class (;kinda)

I got teased in class (;kinda) Sorry for typo, on mobile. So in class today I got picked on to read a math problem and explain how to do it, I said something along the lines of "if you uhmm like like...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterApr 25, 2017
8 points

Anxiety

Anxiety Hello my fellow stutterers. I'm 25 years old and I've been stuttering since I was a kid. I had speech therapy when i was in 4th grade but it honestly did nothing for me. I have a hard time wit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2017
1 points

She is a horrible teacher, she shouldn't have let you drop it. You have to feel bad or be out of your comfort zone to progress. I have been through this a lot and it sucks, but some advice to help you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques