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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
6 points

I think it is best to find somebody else. It seems like he wasn't a great partner considering the way he has treated you....

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
1 points

I'll do my best next time to stand firm and say what I need to say. Thank you for those words of encouragement!...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
1 points

Regarding “the ignorant people” - Most of my family works in mental health and special education. I’ve often hung out socially with seasoned SLPs who had no idea I was struggling w a debilitating st...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
1 points

I can relate to it, faced similar in group discussions, though I used to inform prior that I have a stutter so be patient with me, but not everyone complies to it, nor the interviewer considered it. I...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
1 points

Just to clarify...I couldn't find the TA requirements. I messaged you my university name as well. >Yeah, I got that joke thing but still when I know I am talking to the person who is responsible f...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
2 points

Maybe he can talk to his friends about it I think the biggest thing I've learned that has helped is not being hard on myself when I stutter That includes people talking over me etc I move on and ...

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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
3 points

I often feel like an outlier here, but my thought is don’t give others your power. Take your power back, tell friends and family you got it, and tell the store clerk you stutter and need a few extra m...

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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
2 points

Imo, there's nothing wrong with speaking up for yourself (if you can) if people are mocking you and letting them know it's not okay, but letting your stutter make you into a "cynical asshole" seems li...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
2 points

A year ago I would be opposed to this kinda behavior, but now I don’t give a shit. I think it could benefit all of us to be a little more assertive with these inconsiderate people....

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Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterAug 18, 2022
9 points

how can you not love this !! check out the full blog https://www.cadencespeech.com/post/barry-yeoman-on-self-advocacy-and-stuttering

how can you not love this !! check out the full blog https://www.cadencespeech.com/post/barry-yeoman-on-self-advocacy-and-stuttering ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2022
1 points

My case is very similar but I have already accepted it and I don't hide, if it takes me longer than necessary to spit it out let them wait!...

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2022
1 points

try to think of it as an idiot filter, if they'd discriminate somebody over something like that then they wouldn't be worth your time even if you didn't stutter....

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2022
1 points

We have the power to own our stutters, though. Fuck what society has to say about it. What we have to say about stuttering is all that matters....

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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2022
1 points

That’s the point na. You will meet this kind if people often. Can’t go complaining to the manager all the time. We need to learn to face them....

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commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
7 points

Do you ever try advertising your stutter in the beginning? That may lessen the pressure for you from the start. Also avoids any awkward situations like thinking its a bad connection etc....

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commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
9 points

1. It is what it is. I guess I accepted it by continuing to speak and putting myself in situations where I stuttered - phone calls, group settings, conversations with my dad. Went to a speech therapis...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2022
8 points

Tell them you stutter; THAT will help! Difficult I know, but it works…...

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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2022
13 points

My mom: "Are you faking your stutter?" (she knows damn well I'm not😑) Me: (*Slightly annoyed at dumbass question*😡)"...No, are you faking your________?"⬅(*Disability or something else she's insecur...

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commentr/StutterAug 6, 2022
2 points

Accommodations. If one is considered disabled (and I know many people don’t like word disability) a PWS is entitled to accommodations at work, which levels the playing field for a PWS to do the same...

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commentr/StutterAug 5, 2022
1 points

Thank you. I agree. We have always been told to not make a big deal about it, so we have tried not too. His Dad did tell him that he needs to learn how to lower his volume. Our son called him out for ...

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