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postr/StutterJul 13, 2025
13 points

how do i get my friends to stop mocking my stutter?

how do i get my friends to stop mocking my stutter? I have a moderate to severe stutter and recently it's gotten a lot worse, whenever I talk to my friends they don't even respond, they just mock how ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
3 points

Remember, that there’s always simple solutions to everything in life! I could never say my last name; so I changed it! Here in the south, people are so confused by that fact!!!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJul 13, 2025
4 points

What to do?

What to do? I have been a stutterer myself for a very, very long time now. It suddenly appeared when I was around 4 years old, and has stuck with me ever since. My stutter alternates between being **n...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationBlocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

Thanks, I'm 30, tried years of speech therapy and lots of techniques with very little success. I have things that work sometimes, like you. Putting other words before, choosing a different word, takin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

I often say 'merry birthday' or 'happy Wednesday', not necessarily to avoid stammering, but because I like subverting expectations....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

I haven't seen anyone raise this point, but if you are quite fresh into this relationship with your partner who stutters, perhaps time is the answer. The more time you have been together, the less 'ch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

Yeah mines hit & miss usually but normally I can control it pretty well. I use phrases to reset the needle on the record basically...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

My stutter isn't even that severe, but I was mocked a good deal. Sometimes friends who don't understand what's happening and that this is something I struggle with, but mostly strangers who get really...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
1 points

I understand where you're coming from I have the same issues with events sometimes unless I have something to mellow me out. Unironically though take your own advise and think about the wondering of w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
3 points

I could of written your post. I feel the exact same way. Lately I've been saying ank you really fast and no one has noticed I left out the Th sound so that works...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2025
2 points

It's exhausting at times tbh. But it's kind of relieving (somewhat) reading other people's experiences and what they do. For example, most of us will at some point have a thesaurus opened in our minds...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Quality of LifeAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
3 points

Working on your breathing can be very helpful. Specifically meditation, focusing on the out-breath, every single day. I do it for 20 minutes. Also, prioritize sleeping, and exercise regularly to stay ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
5 points

I was petrified of college and doing class presentations. I voluntarily took a public speaking class my second semester and learned that speaking in front of a larger group can actually be easier than...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic SpeakingMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
1 points

To me it's less about patience and more about urgency. Like when I say "please be patient with me" I more mean don't make me feel rushed. When I feel rushed to say something I'll definitely stammer mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
8 points

Try doing a somewhat long, cute "Awww" to ease into the "thank you," which will express your appreciation, even if pronouncing the intended phrase is hard!! Smiles go a long way too....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
10 points

Exactly this. Find something that works for you and use it. There is nothing wrong with preferring a different way to communicate the same message....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
5 points

Same with saying congrats or happy birthday. It sucks when I feel like I’m being weird or awkward when I know I want to say congrats to my friends....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
9 points

This is one of the absolute worst aspects of stuttering in my opinion and nobody talks about it, thank you foe bringing this up. Like someone else said, I've mostly switched to saying "I appreciate it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
3 points

I use to HATE it when people finished my sentence or said the word i couldn't say. But the older I got im fine with it because I obviously have a stutter so it saves me from further embarrassment or s...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2025
1 points

Think of it like the needle on a record skipping. For me coughing or using a phase like "whats it called" or something to break up the initial sentence helps sometimes. But I got to ask why is it so b...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions