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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2023
1 points

Know what you are talking about, tell your professor/ta that you have a stutter. Even if you fail in a university, its better than failing in a professional environment....

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
School & Academic LifeSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2023
2 points

It varies, some smile, some smirk, some are a little confused. I’ve only had one person try to make fun of it but he was in handcuffs and strung out on drugs. What plays a big role is how you deal w...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Listener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2023
3 points

It's always a dilemma in my head: Do I want to just move on with the conversation, or do I want to maintain the feeling of autonomy?...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2023
3 points

A chronic interrupter once asked me my preference. I thought about it. I told them, guess just one next word, not the rest of my sentence, and only when I am blocking for longer than my average. I had...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2023
5 points

Do you know what I did when this happened to me? I finnished my sentence anyway (+15 seconds) and deep in my heart was enjoying their even bigger discomfort, like "No, we will do it my way, lol"...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
8 points

You need to start setting boundaries, and strongly voicing how you feel when they nag you. There is no way around it. It might lead to some conflict in the short term, but you have to make them unders...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
2 points

then how about this approach. Instead of saying "I ask for your patience.", say "interrupting someone who stutters, that is like... tickling someone who is gassy. It's a huge risk."...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
2 points

I get what you’re saying. My point is that bullying doesn’t stop after high school. You can’t define your worth on someone’s else’s opinion of you. The time to learn that lesson is now because every t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
2 points

Interesting.. I've been through this before, but now I make sure I'm heard if its important. You're gonna wait for me to say my piece if you ask me a question or were gonna argue 😂...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
0 points

You don't know if he's insecure or not. And not everyone is open and comfortable having it pointed out, even by another PWS...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
6 points

They usually don’t like to have it pointed out by people who don’t stutter. It comes off almost accusing and puts them on the spot. It’d be completely different if another stutterer mentioned it beca...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
3 points

Theres a good chance he thought nothing of it. All the time I hear fluent speakers slip up and don’t think “hey they’re making fun of me.” If its still bothering you by the next appointment then you s...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
17 points

Yes! Please call him and explain. You know how it feels if you feel mocked. He’ll appreciate it and you’ll form a bond....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterMar 27, 2023
2 points

What is not (morally) expected regarding stuttering? What do you consider supererogatory in relation to stuttering?

What is not (morally) expected regarding stuttering? What do you consider supererogatory in relation to stuttering? This post is linked to [this](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVl5kMXz1vA) YT video....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Medicalization / NeurodiversityAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
6 points

if i were you, prob say something next appt. talk a lot, maybe you will stutter, then he can figure it out. he prob all ready forgot about this whole situation tbh....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
6 points

Let him know what you truly feel. You don’t have to feel awkward, just let him know what you truly feel, he might not know how to reply to your concern but he will surely appreciate your concern...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
10 points

I don't know if I would necessarily do this. Some people don't like to have their stutterers pointed out and it might make them more self conscious. A regular thank you email is always nice though....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
23 points

I'd drop him a friendly email saying thank you for the work done and that it was great to meet a fellow stutterer and that you're looking forward to the next appointment. It's always a good thing to ...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
3 points

I had a slightly similar experience and kicked myself for not following up. (Had a minor heart procedure with 6 hrs in recovery room, unable to move. Nurse forgot to give me call button and I blocke...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2023
2 points

In general tho, disclosing, having regular eye contact and beginning on a regular exhale will go a long long way to decrease blocks....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others