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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Hmm maybe grade 1 to grade 8. And also high school. It was tough because I felt it was stifling me socially and conflicting with the person I was inside....

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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SoCal here too. Haven’t met anyone that stutters but you make a good point that it doesn’t automatically make somebody friend material lol...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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SoCal here. I've met one mild stutterer but nothing serious and another stutterer. Also, we may have that in common but it doesn't mean it brings us together. That one guy I met was in a totally diffe...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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I met two fellow stutters while I was working (two different jobs), and another as I was buying parts to fix my car. All three had the same smile when I started to stutter and immediately stuttered as...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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I've come across 4 people who stutter in my whole life, and I even sticked up for one of them because he was being made fun of. However, I live in Valencia, Spain, but I'd nontheless like to make new...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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I feel like we stay away from eachother. I once met somebody who stuttered and it made me weirdly aware of how I may make others feel when I stutter and I hated it....

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postr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Looking to connect with fellow stutters

Looking to connect with fellow stutters Hoping to connect with middle age individuals who have stuttered for as long as they can remember. Would love to hear what works/ doesn’t, and to connect in ge...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Im 27 years old. I've had a stutter since I was 8 or so. Ive never once thought that I couldnt create my own happiness. I've found people who dont care about my stutter and they are some of my best fr...

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2023
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Compassion for other peoples struggles. Listening more than we speak, and the wisdom that builds. Quickly filtering out kind people from the assholes....

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2023
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Weeding out horrible people. If someone takes the piss, I don't need to waste time or effort into friendship with them....

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2023
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Gave me confidence to impose myself better. I'm pretty confident. I also kinda developed this capacity of being very careful if they're done talking, if there is anything else they want to say and don...

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2023
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Yeah, pretty often. Just go always from this people. One day, it really hurt me : I was explaining something to some friends, and one of them just randomly asked another "So do you have a girlfriend?"...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Feel you on that, my stutter was on and off when I was younger(speech therapy got rid of it for few years at a time). I used to be social until my stutter became permanent(neurological at 16) currentl...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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There’s a discord groupchat that is linked with this stutter channel. It helps to be around or talk to people with similar issues...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Sure, man. If I need gym advice or regarding relationships, I will dm you. Yeah, it's really nice to know you're not alone in this specific situation....

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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I had asshole "friends" like that when I was in school. I eventually stopped hanging out with them because I'd rather have fewer friends than hang out with people who make fun of me. I didn't have a l...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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Find some friends with selective mutism in your area, you can meet and talk by typing. B-) Great way to sozialize....

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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We all hated it. What sucks for you folks now is knocking a bully’s teeth out if frowned upon. It as a free for all back in the day. Then you became friends....

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2023
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Welcome to the club, friend! The situation is really desperate when you start to see that you have no advantage over other people, and for this reason it is very important that you learn to see your q...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2023
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I’m sorry you’re struggling! It was really tough for me when I was your age. My parents also dismissed me and had this idea it would just go away and it never did. Please please PLEASE remember, peop...

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