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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

I know what you mean. I know many people with social anxiety disorders, even worse than mine, and they do not stutter one bit. I’m taking anti-anxiety medication which helps a tonne with my anxiety P...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
0 points

Like I said, social anxiety plays a vital role in this equation. If I can reduce the physical and mental stress during social interactions and try to emulate my speech pattern when I talk to myself, I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

It's not like the principles I've said are only applicable for me. Many people who stutter share the same traits, symptoms and can be helped through the same or similar strategies....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
2 points

Yeah. What you explained are the "speech tools". They are basically any tactic you use to to avoid a stutter. The less you hear yourself stuttering the faster your brain is gonna rewire. Also the more...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

As I said, I’m old lol. I’m not up with the state of the art that has evolved, so my advice may not be any good anymore. The most obvious one for me was word substitution. I could not, for example, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSituational Variability+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
2 points

What did you do to mask it and almost fully overcome it? Reading and "speech tools/crutches"? Thats what im doing and im getting better and better....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

Yup. Video games were my only way to connect wuth people. Through chat. But im happy that i can finally say that i have social life irl. Hard work pays off. Reading out loud is the foundation for over...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
3 points

For me the worst thing about stuttering was the fear of speaking to people. I was ashamed. Over the years I did all the things to mask it and I became an expert it hiding it. My wife just asked me w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

I feel so much more fluent when I work in customer service, like the first day I might be stuttering more but by the end of my work week I feel like I can say anything, idk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

i think i repeat just to sound fluent like "Mmmmm- Mmmmm Mmmy(3 times repeated) na-na-na-na-name(4 times repeated) is John". Repetition must be leaned response to sound fluent when we stuck and restar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

I build maps for the Forest Service. My first job was answering the phones and doing customer service at a skydiving facility close to my house. It was a struggle starting out with my stutter but even...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
3 points

To see the impatient stare in others because you can't finish a sentence fast enough, the physical pain as you just can't use your vocal apparatus rightly, the lack of vocabulary 'cause sometimes isn'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

absurdism is also a good philosophy that can apply to avoidance reduction. stuttering itself is absurd...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
0 points

Beta blockers (propranolol ) improves fluency indirectly by reducing the physical symptoms of anxiety and adrenaline overload. You take it as needed before a stressful speaking event....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
5 points

Trying to say something at work or with friends but ending up silent because you dread the stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 30, 2025
2 points

Accountability partner wanted -- working through ARTS (Avoidance Reduction Therapy for Stuttering)

Accountability partner wanted -- working through ARTS (Avoidance Reduction Therapy for Stuttering) A little about me -- I'm 37, around 8% disfluency, and wanting to fully confront my speech head-on. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
11 points

Being unable to put your absolute best foot forward in a job interview because you cannot eloquently articulate your answers....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
4 points

In fact, when I'm lying in bed with my girlfriend, I whisper because it's impossible for me to talk casually without blocking myself....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
2 points

Its not really them that have a problem, they accept it. Its just me that distanced myself from my parents. I feel tired of talking. Feels like a chore. They may tolerate my stutter, but i dont. Espec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

It worked for me once with a client when I first started out.  I could feel the block incoming strongly and began to tone myself down to a whisper as if I was a bit shy.  Surprisingly could talk on fi...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution