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postr/StutterNov 13, 2025
27 points

Finished My PhD, Landed a Job, Still Stuttering - My Rollercoaster of a Story

Finished My PhD, Landed a Job, Still Stuttering - My Rollercoaster of a Story Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to share my story. My stuttering comes and goes. I’ve had days where I felt amazi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

Sertaline is an anti-anxiety medication, similar to Fluoxetine, Lexapro, Xanax etc… I take Fluoxetine to address my anxiety which indirectly helps with my speech fluency since I’m not as anxious in s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

I've had the smiles turn to frowns too bro.. but I've learned to flip it into some type of joke. I usually tell em I have a speech problem in the beginning and the ones the like me always say" oh your...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
3 points

I disagree with this to an extent like yes I do substitute words that don't fit grammatically however I don't think that effects your intelligence at all. You may sound less intelligent but simply say...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
6 points

Because of word substitution and all, I am really fycking sentence structures and sometimes I completely change the meaning. My language proficiency is also degrading day by day because of avoidance b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 13, 2025
5 points

I feel dumber than before

I feel dumber than before It is often said that if you are intelligent or cultured, it shows in your language, but... what if the other way around also works? I'm not saying that if you're stupid yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

Yeah I would say its hard to have good social skills and a severe stutter as social skills are like a muscle which requires work but when you talk like your having a stroke every 30 seconds like mysel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

For sure, I can understand that for me it’s more of a blocking than a stutter for me. To each his own though. It sucks for us all. I tend to keep to myself because of it. I just got a job doing custom...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

I never found a disrespectful for someone to help me finish my words. I actually found it helpful. So I can stop embarrassing myself. 😂 most of the time people know what you’re trying to say...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
1 points

So, you’re doing the right thing by addressing your anxiety by taking a SSRI medication, but not all are very effective. I take Fluoxetine/Prozac and it’s made a big difference reducing my anxiety in...

Meds & SubstancesCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesPropositionality & WeightAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 12, 2025
2 points

Need help with my stuttering

Need help with my stuttering Ok… where do I begin. I’ve been stuttering since I could speak and I’m 27 now and it has made my life very difficult. I do have moderate anxiety which is manageable and ab...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
1 points

Yes, absolutely! My vocabulary is extensive because of my stutter. I know words to pivot to if it becomes too difficult to say a word I typically stutter on....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/TrueStutterNov 12, 2025
2 points

Stuttering has robbed me of so many different career pathways that Im considering giving up entirely, as a Highschool student. and I still can't stand this community.

Stuttering has robbed me of so many different career pathways that Im considering giving up entirely, as a Highschool student. and I still can't stand this community. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterNov 12, 2025
64 points

Stuttering has robbed me of so many different career pathways that Im considering giving up entirely, as a Highschool student. and I still can't stand this community.

Stuttering has robbed me of so many different career pathways that Im considering giving up entirely, as a Highschool student. and I still can't stand this community. Dude what the fuck, i couldnt tel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
1 points

Propranolol works well for me on the odd occasion I have to deliver a speech in front of big groups...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
2 points

dude same my first name starts with an R so i can roll it but my last name is with a C so everytime i have to show up for class i have to start with an A sound.. but honestly if you're going to univer...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 11, 2025
2 points

Have to speak situation

Have to speak situation So today at work, I had to convey one message to my coworker. I started speaking frist word came out good, then I tried and tried to get out my second word, It did get out but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2025
3 points

Its the opposite for me I find that I often come across as dull or shallow due to using easier to pronounce words. I think it also prevents me from saying what I want to say. Like I get the general id...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2025
3 points

I find substituting words is more of a negative secondary behavior or stuttering. Although it can help you sound more fluent more often than not it leads to janky/awkward sounding speech. In my opinio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2025
1 points

Literally hate that resteraunts ask what the name of a order is now. Just give me a order number! I just used "billy" bc its the usual go to tism word I say. But I totally relate!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution